| How to Set Goals and Achieve Them Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:00 AM PST Few things are better in this world than setting a goal and achieving it. Just like when athletes experience a type of "runner's high" after a race, so too does completing any goal produce a sense of elation and pride. This article explores many ways of setting and pursuing goals. Goals won't just complete themselves. You need to be regimented in your pursuit of them. Get started. Keep going. Achieve your aspirations. [Edit]Formulating Your Goals - Decide what you really want to achieve. Don't be concerned about what others want for you. Make your goals for yourself. Studies show that when your goals are personally meaningful, you're more likely to achieve them.[1]
- Oftentimes, this is the hardest part of the goal-making and fulfilling process. What do you want? The answer to this is often a mixture of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. Buzz phrases like "stay true to yourself" clash with familial and work obligations. Find goals that promote a balance in your life - goals that make you happy and benefit your loved ones and others that depend on you.
- Consider asking yourself some questions, such as "What do I want to offer my family/community/world?" or "How do I want to grow?" These questions can help you determine the direction to take.[2]
- It's okay if your ideas are fairly broad at this point. You'll narrow them down next.
- Prioritize. Once you have an idea of what you really want to achieve, you need to prioritize these areas. Trying to work on every area of your life at once can leave you overwhelmed and unable to achieve any of your goals.[3]
- Split your goals into three areas: first, second, and third tier. The first-tier goals are the most important to you, and they may come more naturally. The second and third tier goals are not as important. They may also be more limited or specific.
- For example, first tier goals could be "improve my health" or "spend more time with my family." Second tier goals could be "keep my room clean, learn to surf" and third tier goals could be "learn to knit, do laundry more regularly."
- Set specific goals. Be specific and realistic about what it is that you want to achieve. Research shows that setting a specific goal makes you more likely to achieve it and can even make you feel happier in general. Be as specific and detailed as possible, remembering that you may need to break large goals into smaller sub-goals.[4]
 - Ask yourself some questions about your goals. What do you need to do to achieve them? Who will need to assist you? When will each stage of your goal need to be accomplished?
- For example, "Be healthier" is too big and vague to be a helpful goal. "Eat better and exercise more" is better, but it's still not detailed or specific.
- "Eat 3 servings of fruit and vegetables a day and exercise 3 times a week" is specific and concrete, making it much easier to achieve.
- You also need to build the scaffolding for how you will achieve these goals. For example, to achieve your fruit and veg goals, will you bring healthy snacks along to work? Choose a fruit cup instead of fries the next time you eat out? For exercising, will you work out at the gym or go for walks in your neighborhood? Think about the individual actions you need to take to "add up" to your overall goal.
- If you have multiple stages for your goals, when does each need to be accomplished? For example, if you're training for a marathon, you need to have an idea of how long each stage of training will take you.
- Be realistic. Setting the concrete, specific goal of "Buy a 3-bedroom apartment on the Upper East Side" won't help you if your budget is more "Studio apartment in Brooklyn." Keep your goals grounded in reality. It's okay to have aspirational goals, but you need to know exactly what to do to get you there.
- For example, if your ultimate goal is to buy a big house in the country, you will need multiple sub-goals to accomplish this. You'll need to save up money, build your credit, even possibly increase your income. Write out each of these sub-goals, along with the steps to take for each.
- Write out your goals. Be detailed, be clear, and include your deadlines. Writing them down tends to make them feel a little more real. Keep your list in a place where you can reference them frequently. This will help keep you motivated.[5]
- Word your goals positively. You're much more likely to achieve your goals when they are worded in positive ways, such as "Eat more fruits and vegetables" instead of "Stop eating junk food." another example of this is "Exercise more often" instead of "Sit around less".[6]
- Make sure your goal is measurable. How will you know when you've completed a goal? If your goal is to move to a new house, you'll know based on when you sign on the dotted line of your new lease or title papers. Other goals aren't measurable at first glance. If your goal is to become a better singer, then how will you know when you've reached it? Set measurable goals instead.[7]
- For example, you could memorize and "perfect" a single song. Learn to play an instrument while singing. Hit a new note. Measurable goals give you a sense of completion when you've finished them as you work towards a larger goal.[8]
- Brainstorm ways of attaining your goals. Are there different ways to reach your goal? Write everything down that you can think of in three minutes, no matter how silly or impossible it may seem. If your goal is to get in shape, you might try joining a gym, eating differently, adjusting your daily schedule to incorporate more walks, riding a bike to work and back, making your own meals rather than eating a fast food joints regularly, or even taking the stairs rather than the elevator. There are often multiple routes to the same destination. Think about your goal as a final destination. What route or routes can you take?
- Keep your goals grounded in what you can achieve. Remember that you can only control your own actions, not anyone else's. "Become a rock star" is not really a feasible goal because it relies on others' actions and responses that you can't control. However, "form a band and practice our music until we're excellent musicians" is a goal that your own work can achieve.[9]
- Focusing on your own actions can help you face setbacks, too, because you will recognize that you can't control the roadblocks you may encounter.
- Remember that goals can also be processes. For example, "become a senator" relies too much on others' actions, which you can't control. If you don't become a senator, you're likely to consider your goal as a failure even if you did your best. "Run for public office" is a goal that you can consider achieved, even if you don't win the election, because you went through the whole process to the best of your ability.
- Create a realistic schedule. Your deadline doesn't have to be exact, but it should be your best guess. Your deadlines must be realistic based on your goals. If you're a part-time worker making minimum wage, don't make your goal to have earned a million dollars by the end of the year. Give yourself enough time to accomplish what you've set out to do.[10]
 - Set a deadline. We all procrastinate. It almost seems like a natural human quality, but when a deadline is approaching, you'll work harder to obtain your goal. Think about being in school. When a test was coming up, you knew you needed to study, and you did. Setting goals for yourself should work the same way too.[11]
- Remember that some goals will take more time to achieve than others. "Eat more fruits and vegetables" can be achieved very quickly. "Become more physically fit" will take much more time and effort. Set your timelines accordingly.[12]
- Take external deadlines and timelines into consideration. For example, if your goal is "Find for a new job," make sure to include any application deadlines that your prospective employers have.
- Set up a rewards system. Humans respond well to reward systems. Whenever you accomplish part of your goal, however small your progress, give yourself a little reward. For example, if your goal is to practice your music more regularly, allow yourself a half-hour with a comic book or your favorite TV program once your daily practice is finished.
- Stay away from punishing yourself if you don't meet your goals. Punishing yourself or beating yourself up about not accomplishing something can actually hold you back from accomplishment.
- Identify possible obstacles. Nobody really wants to think about what could go wrong when they're planning for success. However, identifying potential obstacles and how you'll deal with them is crucial to achieving your goals. If you don't, you won't have a game-plan when challenges inevitably present themselves.[13]
 - Obstacles can be external. For example, if your goal is to open your own auto shop, you might not have the money to buy your own shop at first. If your goal is to open your bakery, you might not also have the time to spend with your family that you want.
- Identify actions you can take to overcome these potential obstacles. For example, you could apply for a business loan, write a business plan to attract investors, or partner with a friend to go into business together.
- Obstacles can also be internal. For example, a lack of information can be an obstacle, especially in more complex goals. Emotions such as fear and uncertainty can also be internal obstacles.
- Actions you could take to address a lack of information could include reading up on the subject, asking a mentor for advice, practicing, or taking classes.
- Acknowledge your limitations. For example, if the obstacle is that you don't have enough time to focus on setting up your business and spending the quality time with your family that you desire, there may not be a way to resolve that tension. However, you can talk with your family to let them know that the situation is only temporary.
- Tell people about your goals. Some people shy away from letting others in on their life goals. They fear that if they fail, they'll be ashamed. Don't think of it this way. Think of it as allowing yourself to be vulnerable, without which you can't connect with others or grow personally.[14] Others can help you reach your goals, can offer physical assistance, or just give you the necessary moral support.
- Others may not react as enthusiastically to your goals as you hope. What is important to you may not be as important to others. Recognize that there is a difference between constructive feedback and mean-spirited commentary. Listen to what they have to say, but in the long run, you'll have to decide how important your goal is to you.[15]
- You may also encounter others who do not support your goals. Remember that you're working on your goals for you, not for anyone else. If you constantly meet with negativity from someone about your goals, express that you do not enjoy feeling judged or unsupported. Ask the person to refrain from judging you.
- Find a community of like-minded people. Chances are you aren't the only one with this goal. Find others who have the same aims. You can get started together and benefit from each other's knowledge and experiences. When you've reached your goal, you'll also have someone to celebrate with.
- Go online, utilize social media, and visit local places that cater to your goals. In our digital age, there are many ways of connecting, staying connected, and forming a community.
[Edit]Getting Started - Start working toward your goals today. One of the hardest steps to achieving your goals is taking that first step. Begin immediately. Even if you don't know what your exact course of action is going to be yet, just go with your gut. Do something that is geared towards your goals. When you complete that step, recognize that you are on your way.[16] You're more likely to continue working on your goal if you can feel a sense of immediate progress.[17]
- For example, if your goal is "Eat healthier," go grocery shopping to buy fresh fruit and vegetables. Clear out your pantry of junk food. Go online and look for healthy recipes. These are small actions that are easily accomplished, but they can add up fast.
- If you want to learn any new skill, you have to start practising. Strum a guitar and practice basic chords, if you want to become an excellent musician. Start reading self-help books designed to help beginners develop new skills. No matter what your goal is, there is a way that you can start immediately.
- Follow your plan of action. If you followed the steps presented earlier, you should have a good idea of what steps you need to take to achieve your goal. Now is the time to put them into action.[18]
- For example, if your goal is to buy that three-bedroom house, go to real estate websites and look around for houses that meet (or are close to) the criteria of what you want. Determine your budget and how much of a down payment you'll need. Set up a savings account for a down payment and start saving. Build your credit by paying bills responsibly and managing credit lines.
- Visualize achieving your goal. Research has shown that visualization can help improve your performance.[19] There are two forms of visualization: outcome visualization and process visualization. To meet your goals, combine the two.[20]
- For outcome visualization, imagine yourself accomplishing your goals. Make this visualization as concrete and detailed as possible. How good does it feel? Who is there to congratulate you? Do you feel proud? Happy?
- For process visualization, imagine the steps that you must take to achieve your goal. For example, if your goal is to become a small business owner, imagine each action you take to achieve that goal. Imagine yourself creating a business plan, applying for a small business loan, pitching to investors, etc.
- Process visualization helps your brain "encode prospective memories." Psychologists say that this process can help you feel like you can accomplish your goals because your brain already feels some of the success from them.[21]
- Keep a list. Review your goals daily. Read over your goals at least once a day. Read your goals when you get up in the morning and before you go to bed at night. Reflect on what you have done each day to work towards them.
- When you've completed a goal on your list, don't scratch it out entirely. Instead, move it to another list, this one for "accomplished goals." Sometimes, we focus on what we haven't achieved and forget about all the goals we've met. Keep the list of accomplishments around as well. It will be a good source of motivation.
- Ask for guidance. Find a mentor or someone who has achieved your goal to give you advice. They'll have insight into ways that you can achieve your goal or things to avoid if you want to succeed. Listen to them carefully. Consult them regularly.
- Just like in school, you wouldn't necessarily choose to teach yourself advanced mathematics. It is far easier if you have a teacher — someone who knows the "formulas" to success — to help you along the way, to explain ways of overcoming obstacles, and to celebrate with once you've succeeded. A good mentor will be just as proud of you for achieving your goal as you'll be of yourself.
[Edit]Handling the Journey - Recognize "false hope syndrome." False hope syndrome is probably already familiar to you if you've ever set a New Year's resolution. Psychologists describe this syndrome in three parts that make up a cycle: 1) setting the goal, 2) feeling surprised by its difficulty, 3) giving up on the goal.[22]
- False hope syndrome often happens when you expect immediate results from your actions. For example, you might set a goal of "Become more physically fit" and then get discouraged when you've been working out for two weeks without noticeable changes. Just remember that some goals do take time and setting up clear stages and timeframes can help combat unrealistic expectations.
- This syndrome can also happen when the initial "rush" of the goal wears off. For example, the goal "Learn to play the guitar" is really exciting for a little while, as you buy a new instrument, learn a few chords, etc. However, when the real work of daily practice, calluses, and chord progressions sets in, you may lose momentum. Setting small goals and celebrating small successes can help you keep your momentum going.
- View challenges as learning experiences. Several studies have shown that people who treat setbacks as learning experiences are more likely to feel positive about their ability to achieve their goals.[23] If you view challenges, setbacks, or even your own mistakes as "failures" and beat yourself up for them, you'll be focusing on the past instead of looking toward the future.
- Research has shown that people who accomplish their goals don't usually have fewer setbacks than people who give up on their goals. The difference is in how you envision the setbacks. Can you learn from what went wrong to do something differently next time?[24]
- The drive for perfectionism can also hold you back from acknowledging mistakes as sources of growth. When you hold yourself to impossible standards of performance, you're actually more likely to feel like your goals can't be achieved.[25][26]
- Instead, be compassionate with yourself.[27] Remind yourself that you are human, and that all humans make mistakes and experience challenges. [28]
- Studies have shown that positive thinking is effective at helping people learn and adapt than focusing on your mistakes or flaws. Next time you find yourself beating yourself up over a perceived failure, remind yourself that you can learn from every experience, no matter how unpleasant it is in the moment.[29]
- Acknowledge every victory. So much of achieving goals is a matter of perception. Celebrate small wins. If your goal is to make straight A's and you do well on an exam, celebrate it. If you goal is to become a lawyer, celebrate every hoop you successfully jump through, such as getting into law school, doing well in a course, passing the bar, and finally getting a job.[30]
- Celebrate benchmarks or milestones. Some goals will take years if not longer to accomplish. Recognize and celebrate the amount of time that you've spent doing something. Practice takes time and effort. Recognize and be proud of the amount of time you've put into something.[31]
- Celebrate the smallest accomplishments, too. For example, if your goal is "Eat healthier" and you're able to say "no thanks" to that greasy but delicious slice of pizza, pat yourself on the back for your willpower.
- Stay passionate. Whatever your goal is, it is a goal for a reason. It is something that you want for yourself in the future. Let that passion and drive show. Reminding yourself about what you are working towards can help you get through momentary difficulty or unpleasantness.[32] Sometimes, the best destinations force you to take the roughest trails.
- Revise your goals if necessary. Life is filled with lemons that don't make very good lemonade. Sometimes, unexpected things happen that will affect your plans. Don't be afraid to recalibrate, think of new plans, set new goals, and in some cases reject old goals that you might not care about any more.
- Setbacks are natural. They shouldn't automatically deter you from your ultimate goals. Recognize why you are facing a setback. Is it something you can control or not? Move forward accordingly.[33]
- Consider new opportunities. Some of the best things in life aren't planned. Say yes to new opportunities if they help further your own goals or present new, better goals.
- Persevere. Keep track of the small successes you accomplish. Achieving these smaller tasks will help you build your self-confidence, because you'll know that you're capable of achieving things you set out to do. Remind yourself of your past successes when you find yourself struggling.[34]
- Remember that setbacks don't mean failure. Author J.K. Rowling's Harry Potter novels were rejected twelve times in a row before a publisher agreed to take a chance on them.[35] Inventor Thomas Edison's schoolteachers told him he was "too stupid to learn anything."[36] Oprah was fired from her first television job and told she was "unfit for TV."[37]
- Sometimes it's that negative feedback from others that fuels our drive to be successful at our goals and dreams.
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| How to Dress Up for a Disco Party Posted: 31 Dec 2019 04:00 PM PST Disco outfits are known for their bright, funky colors and fun accessories. When you go to a disco party, you want to make sure that your outfit is as authentic as possible. Start by shopping online or in a vintage shop for some fun and classic outfits from the disco era, considering different fabrics and fashion trends as you go. Once you've selected your costume, jazz it up with a classic hairstyle, some disco-ready makeup, and some great shoes and accessories. With all the glitz and glam of the disco era, you'll be sure to find an outfit that works for you! [Edit]Selecting Clothing Items - Try on a jumpsuit for a funky and sleek look. Jumpsuits are a great option for both men and women due to their timeless style and sleek appearance. If you truly want to embody the disco era, opt for a one-piece jumpsuit that reaches your ankles. This garment is great if you plan on dancing a lot—you can even jazz it up with high heels or platform shoes.[1]
- For example, wear a sleeveless coral jumpsuit along with a pair of chunky, high-heeled sandals. For a more masculine approach, opt for a two-toned jumpsuit instead, like purple and black or tan and brown.
- Unlike other fashion staples of the disco era, jumpsuits are still worn today![2]
- Pay homage to traditional 70s fashion by wearing a disco suit. Get into the spirit of the times by going to the party in a three-piece disco suit. For an especially bold look, opt for an all-white ensemble. If you'd prefer to add a splash of color, try pairing a dark vest and slacks with a brightly colored dress shirt.[3]
- For instance, wear a white vest, slacks, and jacket with a blue and white plaid dress shirt underneath. Add some flair to the outfit with a pair of sunglasses!
- Pair some shiny pants with a clingy top to look extra chic. If you don't want to commit to the jumpsuit but still want to wear something fun and relaxed, try on some shiny, sleek pants with a form-fitting top! If you aren't a fan of long sleeves, wear a sleeveless top with brightly colored shiny pants instead.[4]
- For instance, try wearing a pair of shiny blue pants with a teal tube top or sleeveless shirt. For a bold long-sleeve option, try a black shirt paired with some bright red pants.
- Stay relaxed and comfortable in some bell bottoms. Dress down for a disco party by pairing a funky top with some classic bell bottoms. Don't feel limited to just wearing blue bell bottoms; instead, try creating a theme with your outfit.[5]
- For example, try pairing a dark, sleeveless top with some pink paisley patterned bell bottoms! For a more masculine look, try wearing a light yellow dress shirt with some gold pants.
- To really embody the 70s look, try choosing high-waisted pants.[6]
- Stand out in a mini-skirt or midi-skirt. Pick a form-fitting mini-skirt if you'd rather wear something short and form-fitting. If you'd prefer a skirt that goes down to your thighs, opt for a midi-skirt instead. Make your outfit extra funky by choosing a skirt with a fun pattern, like leopard print.[7]
- If you don't want your legs to get cold, try pairing your skirt with a pair of opaque tights.[8]
- Put on a wrap dress if you'd like something more convenient. If you want a last-minute fix for your disco party, try on a wrap dress. Choose this option if you plan on dancing a lot, or if you'd prefer to wear something fancier than a jumpsuit. If you don't like sleeveless dresses and shirts, then this might not be the outfit for you. Keep in mind that, unlike other dancing dresses, the wrap dress usually goes down to your knees.[9]
- Wrap dresses are unique since they're often made of 2 different fabric colors. They also come with a cord that you can use to tighten the garment around your waist.
- For example, try pairing a burgundy and light pink wrap dress with a pair of wine-colored high heels.
- Choose a dancing dress if you'd prefer a traditional option. Unlike spandex and leotards, dancing dresses allow you to look feminine without appearing too gaudy. Look especially striking at the party by choosing a dress in a bright, solid color.[10]
- For instance, try wearing a bright red dancing dress with white, high-heeled sandals.
- If you'd prefer a dress with long sleeves, try wearing a Qiana dress, which features long sleeves along with a thigh-high skirt. Opt for a plain look by choosing a dress in a solid color. If you'd like to spice things up, look for a garment that comes in a fun pattern.
- Wear a white shirt and blue jeans for a quick and easy outfit. Opt for a more timeless look by wearing a traditional shirt and jeans, or something similar. If you want to add a splash of color to your look, go for a multicolored shirt along with a pair of flared jeans. Add some extra pizazz to your ensemble with a chunky belt as well![11]
- For example, try wearing a brown and yellow patterned shirt with some blue jeans, accompanied by a chunky brown belt.
- Look extra suave by wearing a disco shirt. Bridge the gap between fancy and casual by wearing a fun, flowing disco shirt. While still paired with nice pants, you can look a lot more relaxed and laid back by wearing a disco shirt. If you want to dress up a little more, wear some neutral-toned slacks with your shirt. If you'd rather dress down, opt for some blue jeans instead.[12]
- For instance, pair a black and grey patterned disco shirt with a pair of grey slacks and some nice loafers.
[Edit]Choosing Items with a Disco Vibe - Dress up in bright, flashy colors to stand out at the party. Get in the spirit of the disco era by wearing a variety of fun, bright colors. Don't worry about your colors clashing or looking too out-of-place—at the disco, all colors are welcome! If you're feeling especially bold, opt for metallic or sequined clothes to make your outfit sparkle.[13]
- For instance, try pairing a bright orange, form-fitting crop top with a pair of dark blue bell-bottoms.
- Pick clothing made of Spandex to wear something fun and flexible. Go to a disco party in maximum comfort by incorporating spandex into your outfit. You can find Spandex in a variety of different clothing items, including jumpsuits, jeans, and tops. Mix and match until you find the perfect outfit![14]
- Viscose rayon is also a great option if you like to wear a lot of patterned fabric.[15]
- Choose accessories with classic 70s symbols to embody the disco spirit. Pay homage to the disco era with a variety of classic symbols on the accessories, such as a peace sign or disco ball. Try to find shirts or other articles of clothing printed with these popular symbols. If you're feeling especially ambitious, order a cheap disco ball online and bring it to the party![16]
- If you want to take a more musical theme with your costume, wear some vintage tees of famous 70s bands like ABBA or the Village People.
- Select fringed fabrics for an extra funky vibe. Look for clothing and accessories that have an element of fringe, or dangly decorations. You can find many vests and boots with fringe, in addition to pants as well as other items of clothing. While not as stereotypical as a jumpsuit or pair of hot pants, fringed clothing and accessories are a great way to add an extra layer of cultural depth to your disco attire.[17]
- Try on clothing with bright and fun patterns. Take advantage of the disco era's bright and flamboyant fashion style by opting for patterned clothing and accessories. If you're looking for a more feminine style, choose a shirt or dress with a paisley pattern. If you'd prefer a more retro look, opt for a Hawaiian shirt instead.[18]
- Animal and floral prints are also great pattern options for a disco costume.
[Edit]Doing Your Makeup and Hair - Apply heavy layers of pastel makeup for a classic disco look. Use a small makeup brush to pack a lot of pastel eyeshadow on your eyelids. To really exaggerate the look, brush some product above the crease, stopping right beneath the brow bone. If you want to go for a bolder look, try an eyeshadow in robin's egg blue or lime green.[19]
- If you'd like to get some makeup inspiration, look online for images of fashion magazine covers and makeup advertisements from the 1970s.
- Add some face gems to make your face shine. Stand out from the crowd by decorating your face with rhinestones. Use a skin-safe adhesive to glue the gems into a fun shape or pattern, and let the disco lights do the rest! If you want to look especially bold, try using larger and chunkier rhinestones.[20]
- Silver or diamond rhinestones are a great color that go with almost any outfit.
- Wear thick eyeliner to make your eyes pop. Imitate some musical greats of the disco era by applying heavy amounts of dark eyeliner around your eyes. Don't worry about looking out-of-place at the party, since disco is all about bold and exciting looks! If you don't want to apply too much product, start by giving yourself dramatic wings around the corners of your eyes.[21]
- Feather your hair into layers for a chic, feminine look. Get ready for a disco party by layering your hair in large wispy sections. If you don't want to mess up your natural hair, search online for wigs that have feather layers. If you're styling your natural hair, keep in mind that feathered layers long best on people with shoulder-length hair.
- For inspiration, look up pictures of Farrah Fawcett online.
- Part your hair down the center for a traditional 70s hairstyle. Save some time by going for a simpler but classic 70s look. If you'd prefer not to spend a lot of time on fancy updos, use the narrow end of a comb to part your bangs down the middle of your head. Make sure that you have equal amounts of hair on each side of your face.[22]
- Keep in mind that this style is easiest for people without short bangs. If you have shorter bangs, keep them front and center.
- Go for a mullet or surfer hairstyle to look like a rockstar. Embody the cool vibe of the disco era by making your hair loose and free. If you don't feel like going to a lot of trouble, tousle your neck or shoulder-length hair so it looks messy, or like you've just come from the beach. If you'd rather give off a more classic look, opt for a mullet instead.[23]
- If you don't want to style your hair in a mullet, try purchasing a mullet wig online instead.
[Edit]Finding Funky Accessories and Shoes - Slip on a pair of sunglasses for a retro vibe. Make your outfit look even funkier by accessorizing with sunglasses! While any sunglasses will do, opt for sunglasses with large, round lenses. Additionally, look for glasses with bulky frames and colored lenses to add some flair to your costume![24]
- For a unique look, choose glasses with ovular or circular frames!
- Include a headband in your outfit to add a burst of color. Round out your disco costume with a fun head accessory, like a brightly colored or patterned headband. Choose a headband that fits the circumference of your head, or that ties easily around your scalp. If you want to be extra fancy, look for a headband with fake jewels or other fun add-ons![25]
- If you'd prefer a more natural look, consider wearing a leather band, some macrame decorations, or hair flowers instead!
- Accompany your fun outfit with a stylish handbag. Switch out your traditional purse or clutch for a fun, shiny handbag! A shiny, disco-era handbag can really tie your outfit together, whether you're using it as an accessory or as a means to carry your wallet. Pick something fun and funky, and don't be afraid to think outside of the box![26]
- If you aren't a fan of handbags, opt for a coin purse, wrist canteen, or binocular case instead.
- Adorn your neck with a colorful scarf or feather boa. Add a pop of texture or color to your disco ensemble with a fashionable scarf accessory. If you're going for a more traditional outfit, try for a solid-colored or printed scarf. If you'd prefer to make your ensemble extra funky, opt for a brightly-colored feather boa instead![27]
- If scarves and boas aren't your style, try grabbing a sequin sash or fan!
- Highlight your ensemble with large, chunky jewelry. Finish off your outfit with some especially flashy earrings and bracelets. If you really want to embody the disco spirit, try on some armbands or wrist cuffs! If you're looking to round out your costume, then whisper chains and checkers are also an option.[28]
- If you'd like to look extra fancy, finish off your outfit with a tiara or crown!
- Complete your look with a solid or bejeweled belt. Balance out your costume around the waist by wearing a neutral-toned or multi-colored belt. If you're going for a themed outfit, a belt can really make your ensemble pop! For a simpler look, opt for a braided leather or beaded accessory. If you'd prefer to stand out, choose a shiny vinyl, velvet, or rhinestone-encrusted belt.[29]
- If you're wearing a full body outfit, like a jumpsuit, consider tying off the garment with a fabric sash.
- Add some height to your outfit with platform shoes. Be the tallest person in the room by slipping on some platform shoes. If you can't decide what kind of style to go for, platform shoes are great starting point. If you want to try a more simple look, opt for chunky platform loafers that only rise . If you want to go for a bolder style, try on some platform boots or sandals that rise several inches or centimeters.[30]
- For a classic disco look, pair a jumpsuit with a set of platform loafers or boots.
- Alternatively, pair a sleeveless white dancing dress with a pair of high-heeled sandals. If you'd like to add more color to the outfit, try a more brightly colored dress with more colorful shoes.
- Pick out some golf shoes for a classy look. Complete a more formal disco outfit with some monochromatic golf shoes. Unlike many other accessories and outfit choices of the disco era, golf shoes help you look ready for the party without seeming gaudy. For an especially formal look, try pairing golf shoes with slacks or a nice suit.[31]
- For instance, wear a pair of black and white golf shoes with a black or white disco suit.
- Wear some loafers to give off a more traditional vibe. Being at a disco party doesn't mean that your whole outfit has to be funky and over-the-top! If you want to put more emphasis on your shirt and pants, slip on some loafers to round out your outfit. You can also try on some loafers with a jumpsuit or disco suit if you'd like to make a statement.[32]
- For example, try wearing an all white disco suit with a pair of white loafers. You can also pair some neutral-toned loafers with a funky disco shirt and a dark pair of slacks or bell-bottoms.
- Try on some tall boots to show off your legs. You don't have to choose an outfit with a long skirt or pant legs—instead, pair some tall boots with a miniskirt, or a tight set of hot pants. Feel free to jazz up your outfit with some color, too! If you're wearing a brightly colored top, feel free to wear a pair of colorful, knee-length boots to match.[33]
- For instance, pair some navy blue and teal boots with a teal top, along with some matching hot pants
- Fringed boots are also a fun fashion trend you can take advantage of for disco parties!
- Despite the name, hot pants look more like shorts, and only reach the top of your thighs.
- Most disco clothing and accessories can be purchased online. Some outfits, like jumpsuits, are still sold in clothing stores; however, they won't be the same style as a disco jumpsuit.
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| How to Enjoy New Year's Eve at Home With Your Family Posted: 31 Dec 2019 08:00 AM PST Spending New Year's Eve with at home with your family can be a fantastic opportunity to bond, have fun together, and bring in the New Year with your loved ones. With all the possibilities for fun food, drinks, games and activities, spending New Year's Eve at home can be a real treat. [Edit]Planning Food and Drinks For the Night - Make a homemade meal. Considering that ordering out on New Year's Eve often costs more (since prices are usually increased for the holiday), this is a good excuse to splurge a little and make a family meal at home. Pick out dinner food that everyone enjoys but you don't get a chance to have very often, like steak, chili, or lobster. This family meal can turn into a New Year's Eve tradition.
- You could also consider making a meal out of appetizers.[1] This could lead to a more casual dinner setup, and the kids will like having the ability to pick and choose different kinds of food.[2]
- Cheese fondue is another fun dinner idea for New Year's Eve.[3] Eating cheese fondue with bits of bread and meats will require everyone to sit and eat together. You can take turns dipping your food into the cheese and tell stories from the past year as you eat.
- Make fun snacks and desserts. Consider making cookies, toffee, or other desserts that you can make together as a family and eat throughout New Year's Eve night.[4] You can get even more in the New Year's spirit by making New Year's specific desserts. Lots of cultures have New Year's Eve desserts like Vasilopita, a Greek New Year's Eve cake baked with a coin hidden in the dough.[5] Whoever gets the piece of cake with the coin will have good luck for the upcoming year.
- Marshmallow countdown skewers are another fun dessert idea. Each marshmallow has two or three numbers drawn on with edible ink, and you can eat the marshmallows as you count down to midnight.[6]
- A fun idea for New Year's Eve kid friendly drinks are milk and cookie toasts. The kids can join in on the New Year's toasts by clinking their milk glasses together and eating their cookies as they toast.[7]
- Make some holiday drinks and mocktails. Kids will love having hot cocoa, fruity soda pop, and sparkling grape juice on New Year's Eve. You can even make other mocktails like strawberry-kiwi spritzers, cranberry sparklers, and peppermint drinks.[8] Be sure to use plastic champagne flutes or other plastic "adult" like glasses to make the kids feel really special.[9] Adults can make their own specialty drinks, or stick with classic champagne.
- If you or family members are starting to feel tired, consider making some fun coffee drinks with and without alcohol.[10]
[Edit]Having Fun Throughout The Night - Have a family game night. Bring out board games, card games, and electronic games, and even group video games to play as you wait for the clock to strike midnight.[11] You could make up game tournaments, or try to play all the games at least once during the night.
- Have a movie night. Pop in a movie you already have at home or rent a movie that you all have been wanting to see. Watching a movie can be just one aspect of your New Year's Eve plans, or you can turn it into a movie marathon. During this time you can eat and drink different snacks that you have prepared for the night.[12]
- You can also use this time to watch old home videos and reminisce on good times.[13] Depending on how many home videos you have, you can make it a dinner time activity, or have them playing throughout the night.
- Create a New Year's Eve photo booth. Arrange an area of your home to be the photo booth stage. Find a wall or background that you can use as a backdrop, and decorate it with some holiday decorations or your written resolutions.[14] You could even print out some masquerade type costume pieces, and have your very own photo props.[15]
- Play dress up.[16] Bring out everyone's best clothes and make everyone in the family feel like they are a part of a fancy New Year's Eve party or ball. You could play music, dance, and everyone's fancy outfits can make for some great photos.[17]
- Make countdown bags to open every hour. Fill small bags with different snacks and goodies to open up at every hour leading up to midnight.[18] You can make as many bags as you want depending on how early you want to start opening the bags. Some ideas for bag fillers include:
- Disposable cameras[19]
- Activity tags: watch a movie, eat ice cream, play a game, etc.[20]
- Craft kits[21]
- Candy
- Make your own New Year's Eve decorations. Make your own party hats with some construction paper, string and decorating supplies.[22] You can also make your own New Year's Eve noisemakers by putting rice, confetti, and glitter inside empty water bottles. Simply twist on the cap and shake to loudly bring in the New Year.[23] Consider making a balloon drop for when the clock strikes midnight:[24]
- Simply blow up balloons, and create netting around an overhead fan with some tape and wrapping paper or fabric.
- Place all the balloons inside the netting, and release the balloons whenever you plan to ring in the New Year.[25]
[Edit]Celebrating The New Year - Reflect on the past year and make resolutions together. Around midnight or throughout the night in general, you and your family can gather together and reminisce over where the past year has taken each of you individually, and as whole family. After, make and share resolutions for the New Year and what you hope to achieve. You can even try to make a resolution as a family and be each other's accountability partners.[26][27]
- Celebrate the New Year in a different time zone. If there are younger children, it may be hard for them to stay awake all the way until midnight. Consider celebrating the New Year with a different country's midnight. For example, depending on where you are in the world, try ringing in the New Year with New York, Paris or Greenland.[28] That way, the kids can still celebrate the festivities, but also get to sleep at an earlier hour.
- To take it a step further, you can make whatever country's New Year you're celebrating the theme for the night.[29] If you want to celebrate Paris' New Year, have crepes, fondue, quiche, wine, and cheeses.
- Sing, make toasts and celebrate. When the clock strikes midnight, everyone should have their drinks prepared to toast, embrace, and wish each other a Happy New Year. After midnight, you can all sing the song, "Auld Lang Syne" which is typically associated with ringing in the New Year.[30] This is the time to bring out the homemade noisemakers and bang on some pots and pans.[31]
- If the weather permits, go outside and light sparklers and watch fireworks as you hoop and holler celebrating the new year.[32]
- Forgo the parties you really don't want to attend, and don't take on too many responsibilities. Instead, leave ample time for you and your family to have fun together.
- If you're ordering in, make sure you do so early to avoid the rush of many people choosing to do the same thing!
- Take care of anyone who seems bored or upset by spending the evening with the family. Teens and young adults especially can feel that they're missing out on all the fun if they feel stuck at home. Listen to them and ask them about their past year and what they're looking forward to – this can be a good chance for some family bonding.
- Some people like to have the TV countdown on in the background with the sound turned down; this helps everyone to keep an eye on the time. A radio show is also a good choice.
- There is no obligation to stay up until midnight. No doubt there will be some family members who don't hang around all night! If you feel tired and want to nod off earlier, feel free to; it'll be next year when you wake up and you can hold your own morning ritual to greet the New Year.
- Consider setting off fireworks if its permitted within an area.
[Edit]Warnings - If you spend the entire evening regretting being with the family and thinking that you ought to be doing something more exciting, then you'll have a hard time living in the moment and appreciating its value. It's going to be a lot easier and more fun if you accept that staying at home is just another fun way to spend New Year's Eve. Remember all that you won't have to put up with, things like long lines for taxis, drunken brawls, crowds acting crazy, and being slobbered all over by people who insist on kissing everyone as the New Year rings in!
- Ensure responsible drinking in the household.
- If you play loud music, be considerate of the neighbors. Even if it's New Year's Eve, some people still have babies and illnesses to contend with.
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