| How to Start a Love Letter Posted: 21 Apr 2021 01:00 AM PDT Ah, love. You're head-over-heels for someone, and you're ready to tell them exactly how you feel. Whether your love is a crush, a long-term partner, or someone in between, a love letter is the perfect way to sweep them off their feet. You might be struggling to start your letter, but don't worry! Your love letter is sure to be beautiful, so just write what you feel. [Edit]Use beautiful stationery for a romantic touch.[1] - You can use any paper to write a love letter, but nice stationery will make your letter look extra special. Choose stationery that reflects your style or that makes you think of your love. For instance, you might choose paper or a card that's your favorite color or that features symbols of love, like hearts or flowers.
- You can find stationery at department stores, stationery stores, office supply stores, bookstores, and online.
[Edit]Decorate the letter with a drawing to add a personal touch.[2] - Make your letter extra special by doodling along the border. You could also create a drawing on the paper first, and then write your letter around it. Don't worry about your drawing being perfect. Just create something you think will impress your love.
- If you're not good at drawing, try gluing flower petals, photos of you and your love, or keepsake scraps, such as old movie tickets or handwritten notes, to the letter.
[Edit]Write their first name in the greeting so it's personal.[3] - Your letter is personal, so refer to the person you love by name. Use a simple salutation, such as "Dear," "For," and "To." Then, include their name or preferred nickname.
- You might write, "Dear Alexander," "For Alex," or "To A."
[Edit]Include a term of endearment in the greeting for added romance.[4] - Show your personal connection to the recipient by calling them a special name. Be as mushy as your partner likes. Use a pet nickname you already call them for an easy option. Alternatively, try a flowery term of endearment to create a romantic love letter vibe.
- You might use a greeting like, "Dear Beloved," "To my heart," "Oh, my darling," or "Mi Amor."
[Edit]Tailor your letter to fit the recipient's personality.[5] - Consider what your recipient likes and enjoys when you're crafting your letter. For instance, decide if they like things that are more sentimental or more humorous. Write your letter with them in mind so it feels more personal to them.
- Let's say your love is very sentimental. You might focus on memories with them and take a serious tone. You could write things like, "As I watched you on the beach yesterday, all I could think about is how lucky I am. You've changed my life for the better, and I'll be forever grateful."
- If your love is more lighthearted and funny, you might try a fun, upbeat tone and recount funny moments together or inside jokes. You could write, "I still remember that time we ate pizza off the floor because we were too lazy to make another one. You compl-eat me."
[Edit]Explain why you're writing the letter for an easy opening.[6] - Writing those first few lines is hard, so don't sweat it if you're having trouble. One easy way to begin your letter is to give a reason why you're writing it. In a sentence or 2, tell your recipient what made you decide to write a love letter today.
- Say, "I've been thinking about you a lot today, and I wanted to tell you how I feel," "Ever since the night we first met, I just can't stop thinking about you," or "I know you're the one for me, and it's time I told you that."
[Edit]Recount a memory if you've been with the person for a while.[7] - Instead of telling a long-term partner why you're writing them, you might just describe a special memory you had with them. It might be the first time you met, the moment you knew you were in love, or a time you felt really close to them. Summarize your memory in 2-3 sentences to start off your letter.
- You could write something like, "On the night of our first anniversary, you surprised me with a candlelit dinner you made yourself. Enjoying your handmade meal made me feel more loved than any fancy restaurant ever could. In that moment, I knew no one ever loved me like you do."
[Edit]Start with a quote if you're struggling with what to write.[8] - Expressing how you feel is super hard, so don't worry if you can't think of anything to say. Once you start writing, it'll likely be easier to share your feelings. To get your letter going, try using a quote about love that makes you think of your partner. Here are some great options you might consider using:
- "I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once." - John Green
- "One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love." - Sophocles
- "When you love someone, you love the whole person, just as he or she is, and not as you would like them to be." - Leo Tolstoy
- "You can't blame gravity for falling in love." - Albert Einstein
- "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." - Aristotle
[Edit]Give specific details so your love letter is more meaningful.[9] - Don't just list vague adjectives to describe your loved one or general things that could apply to anyone. Provide details and specific moments so your letter is more personal. This will make your recipient feel extra special.
- For instance, you might be tempted to write things like, "You're amazing, smart, beautiful, and fun to be around." These things are nice, but they're pretty generic. Instead, you could write, "I've never met someone who can bake as well as you do," "You tell the wittiest jokes," or "I could stare into your eyes all day."
- Similarly, don't just say, "I like spending time with you." Instead, say, "Whether we're hiking trails, listening to new music, or crashing in front of the TV, every moment with you is exciting."
[Edit]Stay positive so the person feels loved and appreciated.[10] - Make your love feel extra special by telling them all the wonderful things you love about them. This isn't the time to point out your problems or discuss how you want your relationship to improve in the future. Stick to happy, positive memories and anecdotes so your recipient feels loved.
- Write things like, "Every day with you is a gift," "On the day I met you, I knew I'd fall hard for you," or "I'm amazed by your smile, your laugh, and your pure heart."
- Leave out stuff like, "I know we have our problems," "One day we'll be the couple we want to be," or "I might get annoyed with you sometimes, but I know deep down you're the right person for me."
[Edit]Try expressing your feelings in a love poem.[11] - A love poem can make anyone swoon! Let your feelings inspire you, write about an experience you had with your partner or crush, or compare your love to something special. Don't worry about format or rhyming. Just write what comes from your heart.
- For instance, you might write about your first date or how your heart beats faster when they're around. Similarly, you might compare them to something like a cleansing rain that made you feel anew, sunlight that helped you blossom, or arms that lifted you up.
[Edit]Fold your letter into a unique shape for a creative delivery.[12] - It's okay to use a regular envelope, but why not try something unique? Turn your letter into its own envelope. As another option, try a cute origami fold to really impress your love. This will make your letter feel extra special to the recipient.
- For instance, you might fold your letter into a paper heart.
- You could also try delivering the letter as a message in a bottle for a unique delivery.
- Look at famous love letters for inspiration. You can find love letters written by famous writers or historical figures online. Check out how they expressed their love!
- Consider writing a first draft on scrap paper. You might want to review and revise your letter before you give it to your love.
- Take your time. Set apart time in your day to reflect on what you want to write and really focus on the task.
- Be patient. If the right words don't come along right away, don't worry over it! In time, your feelings will always come through in your writing if you keep trying at it.
- Be yourself! Keep what you write as personal and original as possible.
[Edit]Warnings - Don't be creepy. If the person you are sending the letter to has told you they are not interested, don't pester any further!
- It may not work! Even though you may have given your letter all your heart, sometimes people just don't feel the same way. There will be someone else out there for you who will appreciate you for who you are! Try not to dwell on what you could have said better because it could very well be that even though you wrote something wonderfully, it just wasn't meant to be for that person.
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| How to Use a VPN Posted: 20 Apr 2021 05:00 PM PDT When you use a VPN, your internet activity is sent through an encrypted server that protects it from others on the network. This means your ISP, as well as other people using the same Wi-Fi network as you, can't see what you're doing online.[1] VPNs are also used to access networks that are normally inaccessible when connected through your regular ISP, such as your work or school network. If you're not using a VPN for work or school, you can select from a variety of paid and free VPN providers, most of which can be run on your computer, phone, or tablet. This wikiHow teaches you how to get started with a VPN. [Edit]Getting a VPN - Check with your employer, school, or organization. If you've been told you need to use a VPN to connect to your company or organization's network, you'll need to gather some information from your organization. The information you'll need varies by network, but you'll typically need to install a special app or program, for which you'll need a unique username and password. Your IT department will determine if your computer is compatible with the VPN software, help you make your computer compatible if it is not, and help you access to the VPN.
- Your IT department may give you a default VPN password then allow you to set your own. Use a password that is unique, but easy to remember and do not write it down or stick it anywhere near or on your computer. Avoid using birth dates, the names of close family members or anything that someone else might be able to guess.
- Contact your IT department immediately if you have to reinstall or upgrade your operating system or restore your computer to an earlier point. You may lose your VPN settings.
- Decide whether to use a free or paid VPN solution. If you're using a VPN for personal reasons, such as for online anonymity or to access sites in other countries, you have many options. There are both paid and free VPN services available, and both have merits:
 - Free VPNs are usually only free because they tend to limit the amount of data you can use, throttle your network speeds, have ads, and/or can only be used on one device at a time. They can be handy if you only need a VPN once in a while, such as when you're using public Wi-Fi at a café or library.[2] Most don't require you to provide much information, and you won't have to make a payment commitment. Some popular free VPN options you can check out are ProtonVPN, WindScribe, and Speedify.
- If you are looking for a solution that hides your activity from surveillance, gives you plenty of data without throttling your speeds, and is more reliable, go for a well-reviewed paid service. And just because a service costs money doesn't mean it will be expensive—some great services have payment levels as low as $2/month. The New York Times' Wirecutter's does extensive VPN reviews. Their top VPN suggestions are Mullvad VPN Mullvad and IPVN. Some other highly-reviewed services are TunnelBear, Encrypt.me, ExpressVPN, and NordVPN. [3]
- Search for reviews and experiences. If your goal is to protect your data and stay safe online, you'll need a VPN service you know you can trust. Before signing up with a service, search the internet for its name and "reviews," and try to find out about peoples' personal experiences with the product. Reddit is a great place to search for honest reviews.
- You may want to check out VPN services that don't log your activity—the problem is, it's hard to know which providers are really telling the truth. ExpressVPN is a service that was proven to not log customer data when Turkish authorities raided their data center in search of customer information.[4]
- Sign up for an account. Once you choose a service, you'll generally need to sign up for an account and make your first payment (if using a paid service). Once you're signed up, you can download the VPN provider's software onto your computer, phone, and/or tablet.
- Install your VPN software. Go to the website for the VPN service you're using and follow their instructions for installing their software. If the service you're using supports smartphones and/or tablets, you can download their app from the Play Store (Android) or App Store (iPhone/iPad).
- If you're using a PC, double-click the file you download from the website (usually ends in .exe), and then follow the on-screen instructions to install the software. Once you have installed your VPN, launch the application from your Start menu.
- On a Mac, you will typically launch the .dmg file and be asked to drag the application into your Applications folder. If your computer is password-protected, you will be asked to input your password upon first launching.
- On your smartphone, launch the app from your home screen. You will be asked to log in with your account or create one if you don't have an account already.
[Edit]Using a VPN - Open your VPN software. Once you have downloaded and installed your VPN, it's time to start it up. If you're using a Windows PC, you'll find the software in your Windows menu. If you're using a Mac, it'll be in your Applications folder. Smartphone and tablet users will find the icons for their VPN services in their app lists.
- Sign in with your account. When you sign up for most VPN services, you'll create a username and password. You'll often only need to enter this information the first time you log in, although more secure services may prompt you for a new login each time.
- If you are using a company's VPN, or most personal software, this will grant you secure access to your network. You may see a new window that looks like your desktop at work, also known as a virtual desktop, where you can access your company resources. Or, you may need to launch your web browser and enter a secure web address where you can access your company's resources.
- If you're using a VPN service that restricts how much data you can use or how much time you can spend using it, only activate it when you need to secure your IP address.
- Read the terms of use. If you're using a VPN for personal use, make sure you read the terms of use. Some VPNs, especially free ones, might install third-party applications or display ads. Make sure you are educated on what your VPN is providing you, what it is requiring of you, and what kind of information it collects.
- Most free VPNs are sufficient for general privacy when not at home on a secure server.
- VPNs do not make your HTTPS connections any more secure than without a VPN. A good VPN can significantly improve privacy.
[Edit]Warnings - Using a VPN service to change your location so you can watch streaming content may violate the service's terms of use, and sometimes, local laws.[5]
- If you're doing anything malicious, it may still be subpoenaed by law enforcement even if you're using a VPN.
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| How to Care for a Brow Lamination Posted: 20 Apr 2021 09:00 AM PDT You've got the full, defined brows of your dreams, so how do you keep them looking great? Since the lamination process basically perms your brows in place, there's actually not a lot for you to do. The most important thing is to keep your styled brows dry for the first 24 hours. After that, you just need to keep them conditioned and brush them. With a little care, your brows can look great for up to 8 weeks! [Edit]Aftercare - Keep your eyebrows completely dry for the first 24 hours. This might be the most important thing you do after getting the lamination treatment! During the procedure, your technician spread several layers of chemical relaxer cream and shaped your brows. If you get your brows wet after the process, your brows don't have a chance to set and the style won't last long.[1]
- Some technicians recommend keeping your brows dry for at least 48 hours, so ask your technician what they advise.
- It's completely fine to get your brows wet after the first day! If you get them wet within the first 24 hours though, you may want to talk with your technician about setting them again.
- Resist the urge to touch your eyebrows. This is really hard, we know! Unfortunately, when you touch your brows, you introduce oil from your fingers and this can clog the pores in your brows.[2]
- Try to distract yourself if you keep reaching for your brows. Pick something to do that keeps your hands busy, like a craft project, playing an instrument, or cooking something.
- Skip makeup for 24 hours after getting your brows done. It can feel challenging to go makeup-free for a day, but remember, it's worth it. You want to avoid makeup since it can be oily and might clog your pores.[3]
- Your skin is also sensitive right now so give it a chance to recover from the procedure.
- Wait 2 days before you wash your face so your eyebrows don't get wet. This is probably one of the hardest things about laminating your brows! As tempting as it is, it's not a good idea to wash your face since your brows will get wet. Instead, use a cleansing wipe to clean your face so you don't have to splash it with water.[4]
- Once you've waited a few days, it's totally fine to wash your face. Just try not to rub your brows when you do it.
- Avoid swimming, showering, or sweating excessively. Again, you don't want moisture or oil anywhere near your brows for the first day after the procedure. This means no swimming, saunas, steamy showers, or intense workouts.[5]
- It's totally fine to do these things a few days after getting your brows done. By then, your brows will be set and it's okay to get them wet.
- Try to sleep on your back so you don't press on your brows at night. This might seem like weird advice, but if you usually sleep on your side, the pillow presses against your face and you might bend a few brow hairs. For the first night, try to sleep on your back. You might put bolsters or body pillows on your sides so it's harder to turn on your side while you sleep.[6]
- Can't sleep on your back? Don't stress! Just check your brows first thing in the morning and try to brush any bent hairs back into place.
- Avoid using exfoliating products or retinoids around your brows for 3 days. If your brows feel extra-sensitive for a few days after the procedure, it's totally normal. The chemicals in brow lamination can also dry out your skin a little, which is why you shouldn't immediately use products like retin-A, alpha hydroxy acid, or harsh exfoliants that peel away the top layer of your skin. Wait at least 3 days and remember to keep the product away from your brows.[7]
- If your brows still feel really dry 3 days after the procedure, you may want to wait until they don't feel sensitive before you use a retinoid or exfoliate.
[Edit]Everyday Maintenance - Dab brow conditioner or nourishing oil onto your brows every day. Since dry skin is a common side effect, moisturizing your brows is important. Wait 2 days after your procedure and then soak a cotton pad with brow conditioner from your technician. If they didn't give you any, don't worry! Get a super-nourishing oil like castor, coconut, argan, or avocado oil. Then, dab the cotton pad into your brows so the hairs absorb the oil. Do this every day to keep your brows looking their best.[8]
- Shape your brows twice a day with an eyebrow brush. Laminated brows are super low-maintenance since they hold their shape on their own. If you spot any stray hairs, just use a brow brush to comb your brows in the direction the hairs are growing.[9]
- For example, brush the brows up towards your forehead and then brush them towards your temple as they taper.
- Brush on clear brow gel to give them a slight sheen. If you're going for a dewy, youthful style, clear brow gel can finish your look. Just brush the clear gel into your shaped, laminated brows and you're all set![10]
- Don't have time to apply brow gel? No worries. It's totally fine to skip this step since your brows are already set in place. The gel just gives a little extra shine.
- Apply brow makeup as usual if you want to darken your brows. As long as you've waited a full day for your brows to set, you can totally use your favorite makeup! Fill in your brows with a brow pencil, powder, or cream, depending on whatever you usually use.[11]
- Don't be afraid to wash your brows. As long as you've waited at least 24 hours after the procedure, you can wash with your favorite cleanser.
- Always ask your technician to give you their maintenance recommendations. If you want to get your brows laminated again later, you may want to set up your next appointment, too.
[Edit]Warnings - Although laminated brows are great for a lot of people, you shouldn't get the procedure if you have dermatitis or eczema.[12]
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