| How to Be a Responsible Teen Posted: 27 May 2021 01:00 AM PDT Being a teenager can be hard at times—between parental expectations, school work, and relationships with your friends, you might feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders. Instead of seeing these as stressors, consider all the opportunities you have! As a teen, you have lots of experiences and choices that let you prove how responsible you are. [Edit]Keep your room clean and organized. - Take care of your things and clean up after yourself. If your parents are still picking up after you or cleaning your room, they probably don't think you can handle other obligations like having a job or looking after a car. Prove that you can look after your things by organizing your room and keeping it tidy. Your parents will probably be impressed and grateful that you're caring for your belongings.[1]
- Don't forget that showing responsibility also means respecting other people's things. If you've got siblings, always ask before you want to borrow something and take really good care of it if you do.
[Edit]Help out around your home. - Contribute without being asked to demonstrate responsibility. If your parents have to nag you to do chores, they might think you're not ready for more independence. To earn their respect, find ways to help out without being asked. You might not think they'll notice, but over time, they'll realize that you're contributing. You can also ask them for things you can do that will show you're responsible.[2]
- For example, if you know the trash always has to go to the curb on Tuesdays, move it out there the night before without being told. Try to do things that will help your parents and family out.
[Edit]Work toward good grades. - Make an effort to study and turn in your homework. Yes, homework can be a hassle, but doing it will help you stay on track in class. Going to your classes and learning the material is one of the best ways to prove you're responsible—after all, good grades show that you're attending class, staying engaged, doing homework, and taking exams. This might seem like a lot of pressure, but remember that your teachers and counselors want you to succeed![3]
- If you're struggling with schoolwork, reach out to your teacher or counselor for help. You might need to work on your time management skills to fit in studying time with extracurricular activities and a part-time job, for instance.
[Edit]Get a part-time or summer job. - You'll earn skills, experience, and money while proving responsibility. Your first job is a huge milestone! It shows that you can manage your time, take on work responsibilities, and that you're challenging yourself. During the school year, try not to work more than 10-15 hours a week so you still have time for homework or extracurriculars. You may want to work more during the summer if you're saving up or just have more time.[4]
- Getting a job in high school also gives you valuable work experience. You can put this on a resume and learn about what kind of jobs you like.
[Edit]Avoid drugs and alcohol. - These are risky activities that show poor judgment and can lead to addiction. You'll prove that you're a really responsible teen if you turn down drugs and alcohol.[5] Unfortunately, you might find yourself in a situation where someone's really pushing it on you. If you can't avoid the person, here are a few ways you can turn them down:[6]
- Let them know you're the designated driver and that you need to be sober.
- Explain that you don't use drugs or alcohol because you're on a sports team or have to work later, for instance.
- Bring your own non-alcoholic drink and let them know you're fine.
- Tell them your parents will be checking on you when you get home.
- Be clear that you don't use drugs or alcohol.
[Edit]Protect yourself and your online identity. - Keep yourself safe and don't put yourself in risky situations. You might have rules that you're expected to follow—a curfew, rules about when you're allowed to drive, or places you can go with friends, for instance.[7] Your parents probably have these rules to keep you safe! Keep your personal safety in mind when you're going places or meeting up with friends and don't let your guard down when you're online—be cautious about sharing personal information and change your profile settings to private.[8]
- It's almost impossible to remove something from the internet, so think twice before you post something and never share things that could compromise or embarrass you.
[Edit]Think before you act. - Consider the consequences before you do or say something you might regret. It's really easy to respond quickly at the moment and say or do something you regret, especially if you're arguing with friends or your family. If you start getting angry, take a few seconds to think about why you're upset and ways you could react. Consider the consequences of each reaction before you decide.[9]
- For example, if your parent tells you that you can't go over to a friend's house, you might finish chores and then ask again instead of throwing a fit or getting into an argument with them.
- It's okay to be upset! However, if you don't think can react without getting angry and saying something you regret, give yourself some space to process things. Then, once you've cooled off, go back and talk with the person.
[Edit]Have an open line of communication with your parents. - When you're a teenager, it can feel hard to talk, but make it a priority. You don't have to be best friends, but it's important to let them know what's going on in your life and how you're doing. Your parents will appreciate you letting them be involved in your life.[10]
- If you get in the habit of just checking in with your parents about everyday things, it will be easier to have more serious conversations later on.
- Don't forget to ask about how things are going with your parents and take the time to listen. This shows them that you're considerate and growing up.
[Edit]Discuss responsibilities and privileges. - Have a talk if you think you deserve more independence. It can be hard for parents to step back and give their teenagers more freedom, but if you feel like you deserve more privileges, sit down with them to talk about it. Be respectful and tell them what responsible things you've done to earn more freedom.[11]
- For example, you might say, "I've raised my grades in two of my classes and I worked all summer. I think I'm responsible enough to have a later curfew. What do you think?"
- Don't demand more privileges or freedoms just because it's what your friends have. Remember, you've got to show your parents that you've earned their respect.
[Edit]Practice good hygiene. - Bathe and wash your hair regularly so you're clean and smell nice. When you go through puberty, you might notice your hair becomes oilier, your skin is prone to breakouts, and your sweat has a stronger odor. This just means that you should wash your face daily, shower or bathe frequently, and wash your hair often.[12]
- It's probably a good idea to start using deodorant which can keep you smelling fresh throughout the day, especially if you exercise.
- If you have acne, you may want to start a simple skincare regimen to manage oil and treat blemishes. Wash your skin twice a day with an oil-free cleanser and keep it moisturized. Pick up a few acne spot treatments that contain benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid to treat annoying pimples.
- Wear clean clothes and to show you're really responsible, wash your dirty clothes.
[Edit]Take care of your own health. - Make your own doctor and dentist appointments to get regular care. Show your parents that you're growing up and taking steps to look after yourself. To show you're responsible, talk with your parents about scheduling your own doctor and dentist appointments.[13]
- If you need to get a ride from your parent, check the appointment with them before you book so you know they can drive you.
- Health care can be confusing! If you have questions about medical care or insurance, ask your parent to help clear things up. This shows them you're serious about managing your health.
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| How to Clean Button Mushrooms Posted: 26 May 2021 05:00 PM PDT Button mushrooms are a hardy fungus that go well with a variety of foods. Whether you're eating them fresh or preparing them in a cooked meal, it's important to ensure that you're working with clean produce. To get your button mushrooms as spotless as possible, brush and rinse away any obvious dirt from the surface. If you'd like to get your mushrooms extra clean, try peeling the outer layer of skin from each mushroom. With a little bit of prep time, you'll be ready to enjoy clean, tasty button mushrooms! [Edit]Removing Any Dirt - Brush away any visible dirt with a paper towel if you're eating the mushrooms raw. Take a dry paper towel and rub any dusty or grimy spots on the mushroom. Continue wiping until all of the dirt is removed. As you work, set aside a clean bowl or pan so you can separate the clean mushrooms from the dirty ones.
- If you don't want to use a paper towel, try using a pastry brush or your fingertips instead.
- Since they can absorb moisture easily, you don't want your raw mushrooms to be soggy when you're using them as a salad topper. Because of this, it's better to wipe off your mushrooms instead of rinsing them.[1]
- Rub each mushroom in a pan of cool water if you're planning on cooking them. Fill a wide, circular pan at least halfway with cool water. Take each individual mushroom and place it under the water to get it soaked. Next, rub your fingers in short, smooth motions along the cap and stem to get rid of any obvious dirt and other specks. Once you've finished rinsing and scrubbing your mushrooms, set them aside on a clean plate.
- You might see small, thin pieces of mushroom skin fall off at this time. Don't worry—that's just a sign that your button mushrooms are getting clean.[2]
- Rinse the mushrooms under cool water before cooking with them. Set all of the dirt-free mushrooms in a pan, bowl, or colander to keep them in one place. As you hold the bowl over the sink, turn on the faucet so the mushrooms can be doused with cool water. Move the container of mushrooms in a circular motion so that all of the mushrooms get evenly rinsed.[3]
- Since cooked mushrooms will be exposed to other ingredients, it doesn't matter as much if they're a little damp going into the cooking process.
- If you want, you can stop the cleaning process here. Some people don't see the need to peel way any mushroom skins, and that's perfectly fine.[4]
[Edit]Peeling Away the Skin - Pinch and remove the stems if you don't want to use them. Check your recipe and determine if the recipe needs entire button mushrooms or just the caps. If your dish doesn't need any mushroom stems (or if you'd just prefer to remove them), then feel free to get rid of them. Use your thumb and pointer finger to grip the stalk, then tug it out with a firm pull. If the stem refuses to budge, trying twisting it a bit.
- If you know from the get-go that you're not going to be needing your mushroom stems, feel free to remove and toss them before you wipe off any dirt.[5]
- Start peeling away the skin from the mushroom cap with a knife. Use a knife with a short blade to pry away the skin from the edge of the button mushroom cap. Look for the especially wrinkly sections of mushroom skin along the curve between the cap and stalk. With the blade of the knife, start peeling off the skin from the cap.[6]
- You can also use your fingers to peel away the outer skin.
- Work in sections, going in a circle as you remove the skin. Continue peeling away the outer skin of the button mushrooms with your fingertips or the blade of a knife. Take note that the skin will probably come off in triangular chunks. Keep removing the skin until the entire surface of the button mushroom is white.[7]
- When peeled, white button mushrooms will look like chunks of mozzarella cheese.
- Cut away the skin from the mushroom stems to get rid of any dirt. If you've decided to keep the mushroom stems attached, use the same peeling technique to remove their skin. Unlike the caps, the skin will peel from the stems in thinner, smaller pieces. Once a mushroom is fully peeled, set it aside in a separate container.[8]
- Store the button mushrooms in their original packaging. Keep the button mushrooms fresh by placing them back in their original carton. Since all of the mushrooms have absorbed some water in the rinsing and peeling process, carefully wrap the carton with plastic wrap. Try to wrap the container up pretty tightly, but keep it loose enough so the mushrooms have room to breathe.[9]
- For instance, when you tap the plastic wrap with your finger, it shouldn't be rigid. Instead, there should be a little "give" to it.
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| How to Make Pansies Bloom Again Posted: 26 May 2021 09:00 AM PDT Pansies bloom in early spring and can add some lovely color to your garden after winter. Pansies are generally one of the first plants to come up in the spring, and will continue to bloom until the temperatures rise and cause the plant to become dormant. However, when temperatures drop in the fall, pansies can bloom again if you take a some time to prepare them in the spring. [Edit]Making Your Pansies Bloom Again - Pinch seed pods to help your pansies bloom again. Pansy seeds will grow in long fall climates or they'll remain dormant until the next spring in many areas. Therefore, in order to fool pansies into blooming again, you will need to remove the seed pods before the seeds fully form.
- This can be achieved by pinching the spent blooms from the plant, cutting back extra growth, and fertilizing for blooms rather than leaves.[1]
- Remove any dying blooms regularly. Check your pansy twice a week for any blooms that have died. Remove all dying blooms from the pansy plant to encourage the plant to put its energy towards new blooms and growth.[2]
- Remove any damaged blooms when you remove dead blooms.
- Be careful not to accidentally remove any new blooms.
- Keep the soil moist and apply a phosphorous fertilizer. Water the plant to keep the soil around the pansy moist. Pansies enjoy soil that is damp.[3] Try to apply a phosphorus fertilizer but avoid applying nitrogen to the area unless the fertilizer is a slow release variety, as pansies generally can't handle high levels of nitrogen.
- If the plant is allowed to dry out or receives too little nutrition it will stop producing blooms and need to be replanted.
- Cut away growth and leggy stems. Cut back growth and leggy stems from the plant because these areas will not produce new blooms. When these parts of the plant are allowed to grow unchecked, they can drain the energy of the plant, causing it to produce less blooms.[4]
- Check for seed pods that were not pinched back as blooms. If you find any existing seed pods, remove them right away.
- If your plant is an heirloom you may be able to save the adult pod and collect seeds to start more pansy plants indoors.
- Plant a new blooming pansy if your existing ones begins to die back. If the plant stops producing blooms and begins to die back, you will most likely need to replace the plant with a new blooming pansy in order to benefit from new fall color.[5]
- If this occurs frequently do not feel like you've failed; certain areas of the country simply are not suited for year round pansy growth.
- If you can't find new pansies at your greenhouse to plant in the fall, remember that pansies are simple to start from seed indoors.
- Plan ahead for next year and start the seedlings indoors four to six weeks before fall. After the temperatures get warmed, plant the new seedlings outdoors.
[Edit]Placing Your Pansy in a Bloom-Encouraging Location - Grow your pansies in the correct conditions. To start, you need to consider the placement of your pansies. They should be in a cool, moist, protected area of your garden.[6]
- Consider placing them under a tree that will provide shade for the pansies.
- Keep critters in mind when selecting a location for your pansies. While the pansy plant is very hardy, its flowers will be eaten by critters, bugs, and anything else that might come along so try to plant them in a protected area.[7]
- Protect your pansy from the elements. Pansy plants will look rough and not well cared for if they are placed in an area with large amounts of wind and rain. Try to reserve a safe spot in your garden for them that is shielded against the wind.
- Move your potted pansy out of direct sunlight. If placed in a container, be sure your plant does not receive sun during the hottest hours of the day.
- Move the container during the summer to a cooler area to encourage blooms year round.
- Understand why pansies tend to stop blooming. The reason pansies stop blooming is in the design of the plant. Pansies bloom early in the spring, produce seeds, then die back in the summer.[8]
- If you are having trouble getting your pansies to bloom again, consider planting new pansies in the fall to enjoy fall blooms.
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