| How to What to Do when Your Girlfriend Is Mad at You Posted: 03 Oct 2021 01:00 AM PDT It's never fun when the person you care about the most isn't the happiest with you, but rest assured that you'll get through this. It's perfectly normal for people in a relationship to clash or rub one another the wrong way every now and then—even when they're in a totally healthy relationship! If you're looking to get back to the way things are, we've got your back. From tiny gestures to grand statements of love, we'll help you get back to the way things were in no time. [Edit]Give her space if she asked for it. - If she asked for some breathing room, respect her wishes. She might be really mad now, but she probably won't be a few hours or days from now. If she's furious, your first impulse might be to put an end to this as quickly as possible by fixing the problem right now. She may not be ready for that, so if she needs a breather, it's best to give her that.[1]
- This is probably good for you, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. This will give you time to do some self-reflecting and figure out how you want to approach the conversation.
- It's totally normal to be bummed out, even if you know you screwed up. Don't be too hard on yourself—everyone makes mistakes!
- If the reverse is true and you need space but she wants to solve this right now, it's totally okay to say, "I'm really sorry I upset you, and I do want to fix this, but I need to sort my thoughts out first. I hope that makes sense, I'm not trying to avoid you or anything."
[Edit]Look at things from her perspective. - Swallow your pride and take a step back for a moment. It's easy to get defensive, annoyed, or downright apathetic if your partner is mad and you think it's undeserved. However, people rarely get angry for no reason at all, and it won't help anything if you just "fight back" here. Try to look at things from her point of view and be honest with yourself about your behavior.[2] This will go much more smoothly if you acknowledge (to yourself and to her) what you did wrong.[3]
- If you really think you have zero responsibility here, you have two options. You can try and sit down and explain why you think you were in the right, or you can just let it go and apologize like you really were wrong, even if you think you weren't.
- If you find it really hard to see how you upset her, take a walk and clear your head. Often, it's hard to perceive our actions when it's still the heat of the moment, and a break should give you some clarity.
[Edit]Give her a sincere apology. - Don't just go through the motions—really make it clear you're sorry. Make eye contact, acknowledge that you know you did something wrong, and don't try to offload the blame on to her. If you want to explain why you did what you did, go for it, but don't try to undermine your mistake. If she has questions, answer them. If she still seems upset, ask her what you could do to make it up to her.[4]
- If there's a gap between the start of the conflict and the next time the two of you talk, feel free to write your apology out.
- Even if you think she shares some of the blame here, now is not the time. Solve things first and then dissect the situation later when the two of you are in a more productive headspace.
[Edit]Let her vent a bit. - If she needs to share how she feels and it's uncomfortable, take it like a champ. You don't need to put up with any outward abuse or anything, but if she feels compelled to rant, cry, or lash out at you a bit, let her get it off of her chest. It's not always the healthiest way to cope with icky feelings, but she may need to express those feelings if she's going to get over this. Do your best to not take it to heart.[5]
- Whatever you do, don't lash out at her for lashing out at you. That's how screaming matches and fights start. If your goal here is to move on, you might just have to let her get it all out.
- If she tears into you and sees you sitting there nodding your head and saying, "I understand," she's very likely to feel how over-the-top she's being and cut it out.
[Edit]Make it up to her. - You can either solve the original problem, or do something else for her. If she's mad that you just keep forgetting to do the dishes, go do the dishes. But if she's mad over something you can't really "fix" (i.e. you said something mean that you can't take back), do something to show her you care. If you aren't sure what to do here, ask her![6]
- You might say, "What can I do to make it up to you? I feel really bad and I want you to know how much you mean to me, so how can I do that?"
- If you forgot it was date night or something like that, you might say, "Look, I know I screwed up. Can I take you out next week? I'd been planning this big thing for you and I just got the dates mixed up. Let me make it up to you."
[Edit]Demonstrate you've changed. - Prove you're on the same page by not repeating your mistake. She's just going to get mad in the future if you don't show her you've learned something from the conflict. If she was mad you didn't call her for two days straight, make an effort to call her every night you aren't together. If she was mad you weren't helping out around the house, set reminders on your phone to do the dishes, take the trash out, or clean up. You told her you were sorry, so show her you mean it![7]
- This can take time. She probably won't take much stock in a single gesture, but if you're consistent and reasonable, she'll let go of whatever was making her angry.
[Edit]Make her smile. - With the serious talk over, do something to make her laugh or blush. You know her best, so if she's the type of gal who loves a cheesy pickup line, hit her with the corniest one-liner you have. If she loves sincere comments, double-down on the melodrama. Whatever it is that gets her smiling her heart out, do that to remind her that you two have a good thing going.[8]
- If you make some minor gesture to try and get her to smile and she shies away from you, or doesn't seem into it, let it go. Don't push it.
[Edit]Give her a big old bear hug. - Physical contact will go a long way towards moving on. When she seems ready, either just go for it or ask her, "Can I give you a hug?" Wrap your arms around her and just hold her. You can do that little "lift her off of the ground" move too if she's into that. Hugs are scientifically proven to help people get over conflict, and just feeling your arms around her should make her feel a lot better.[9]
- Again, if you ask her for a hug and she's not into it, let it go. No good comes from forcing someone to do something they don't want to do.
[Edit]Crack a joke if it was a silly fight. - Once the conflict is resolved, humor may make it easy to move on. This is only a good idea if the conflict didn't center on something serious. If you're barely getting over an issue that really hit a nerve with her, joking about it may make it seem like you're making light of the situation. But if you're past it, this is a good way to really deflate tension.[10]
- For example, if she was mad at you for not posting photos of the two of you on Facebook, once the rift is repaired you might say, "Boy, I can't wait to forget tell my Facebook friends about this."
- If she was upset that you didn't notice her new haircut, you might smile and say, "Did you do something new with your eyebrows?"
- Take her personality into account here. This can be a bit of a risky move if your girlfriend is more on the sentimental side or she doesn't get your sense of humor.
[Edit]Review the conflict together. - It's normal to fight now and then, but if there's a lesson here, go over it together. Reviewing the event a few days or weeks after it happened can be really helpful if the two of you weren't "clicking" but there's some insight to be gained. If the two of you are doing well, ask her if she wants to go over what happened. There may be a productive conversation to be had there.[11]
- You might ask her, "Hey, do you mind if we talk about that fight we had last week?" or, "Can we chat about how we can have more productive arguments when we're mad at one another?"
[Edit]Rebuild her trust in you if things went off the rails. - If you really dropped the ball, it may be a while before things go back to normal. While you can't control how she feels, you can show her that you're serious about changing. Do your best to not get frustrated that you're in the dog house, and continue to demonstrate that you're worthy of her trust by being the best possible partner you can be.[12] If the argument comes up again, continue to apologize and let her vent.[13]
- If you were talking to other girls or something serious along those lines, it can take a long time for her to get over it (and understandably so). Don't push back if she asks to see your social media accounts or probes about who you're spending your spare time with.
- This should go without saying, but actively avoid doing the thing that upset her in the first place. If she lost it when she found out you spent a bunch of your shared bank account on a new car without talking to her, don't make any big purchases without checking in with her first.
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| How to Type the Trademark Symbol Posted: 02 Oct 2021 05:00 PM PDT This wikiHow teaches you how to type the trademark (™) and registered trademark (®) symbols on your computer, phone, or tablet. The trademark symbol, which is just a "TM" in super-script characters, is used to assert your ownership of the name, word, phrase, or design that distinguishes your brand.[1] If you've registered your trademark with the government, you'll want to switch to the registered trademark symbol—the "R" inside of a circle. There are a variety of ways to insert both symbols on most platforms. [Edit]Using a Mac Keyboard Shortcut - Click on the location where you want to insert the symbol. Your Mac has simple keyboard shortcuts you can use in nearly any app to quickly insert trademark symbols.
- Press for the trademark (™) symbol.
- If you're using Microsoft Word, you can also insert the trademark symbol by typing . Word's AutoCorrect tool will replace what you've typed with the symbol.
- Press for the registered trademark (®) symbol.
- Just like with the unregistered trademark symbol, if you're using Microsoft Word, you can type and the AutoCorrect tool will change it to the proper symbol.
[Edit]Using a Windows Keyboard with a Numeric Keypad - Click on the location where you want to insert the symbol. If your PC's keyboard has a separate 10-key numeric keypad on the right side, you can use a quick keyboard shortcut known as an "alt code" to insert trademark symbols in most apps.
- Activate your 10-key numeric keypad. Alt codes require you to use the 10-key numeric keypad—you can't use the regular numbers at the top of the keyboard. If you have a dedicated 10-key numeric keypad on the right side of your keyboard, you're all set! However, most smaller keyboards don't have a separate numeric keypad—at least not an obvious one! Here's how you can find and activate your hidden 10-key numeric keypad:
- Look for smaller numbers at the bottoms or tops of these keys on the keyboard: m, j, k, l, u, i, o, 7, 8, and 9. If you see numbers on these keys, you can use these keys as your numeric keypad.
- If you don't see these (and this is becoming more common with small modern PC laptops), you'll need to use a different method—alt codes won't work for you.
- Turn on number lock to activate this keypad. Press the key called "NumLk" (or some other abbreviation of "number lock") at the top of the keyboard. To test it out, press the letter L after enabling NumLk—you should see a 3 instead of an L.
- If that doesn't work, you may have to hold down the fn key as you press NumLk to activate it.
- Press and hold the key. Do not release the key until you're finished typing the code, which you'll do shortly.
- Type on the keypad for the trademark (™) symbol. Type these characters in order, using the numeric keypad only—the number row at the top will not work. After typing the last number in the series, you can release the Alt key.[2]
- Press and hold while typing for the registered trademark (®) symbol. This code gives you the registered trademark symbol, which is the "R" in a circle. Remember, do not lift your finger from the Alt key until you've typed the series of numbers in order.
- When you're ready to type using the regular letters again, just press NumLk again to disable the hidden numeric keypad. But since you'll need number lock to type your trademark symbol(s), leave it on for now.
[Edit]Using Microsoft Word - Click the location where you want to insert the symbol. If you're using Microsoft Word, Excel, PowerPoint, Outlook, or any other Microsoft Office app on your computer, inserting the trademark and registered trademark symbols is easy.
- Type to display the trademark ™ symbol. Word will automatically correct this to the TM symbol on both Windows and macOS.
- If you're using Windows, you can also insert the ™ symbol by pressing Ctrl + Alt + T.
- On a Mac, you can also insert this symbol by pressing Option + 2.
- Yet another option is to click the Insert tab, click Symbol (or Advanced Symbol) on the toolbar, select More Symbols…, click the Special Characters tab, select the symbol, and then click Insert.
- Type to display the registered trademark ® symbol. Office's AutoCorrect feature will automatically convert this to the registered trademark symbol on Windows and macOS.
- If you're using Windows, you can also use Ctrl + Alt + R to insert this symbol.
- Pressing Option + R on a Mac inserts this symbol as well.
- As with the trademark symbol, you can alco click the Insert tab, click Symbol (or Advanced Symbol) on the toolbar, select More Symbols…, click the Special Characters tab, select the symbol, and then click Insert.
[Edit]Using Unicode on Windows - Click on the location where you want to insert the symbol. If you're unable to use Alt codes or are just looking for an alternative, you can use the Unicode version of the shortcut in most apps. This works in any app that supports Unicode, including Microsoft Word and WordPad.
- Type and press for the trademark (™) symbol. As long as the app you're using supports Unicode, this will transform the numbers into the "TM" symbol.
- Type and press for the registered trademark (®) symbol. That's two zeroes, followed by the letters A and E.[3] Just like with the standard trademark symbol, pressing Alt + X will turn this code into the "r" in a circle.
[Edit]Using a Chromebook - Click the location where you want to insert the symbol. You can use a simple keyboard shortcut in many Chromebook applications (including Google Docs) to insert trademark and registered trademark symbols.
- This method uses Unicode to insert the symbol. If the app you're using doesn't support Unicode characters, this won't work for you.
- Press . A "U" with an underline will appear.
- Type (for the trademark symbol) or for the registered trademark symbol. The code you enter will appear after the special "U."
- The code for the registered trademark symbol is two zeroes followed by a capital "A" and capital "E."
- Press to convert the code to the symbol. The "U" and numerical code will be replaced with the trademark or registered trademark symbol when you press Enter.
- If this doesn't work, the app you're using may not support this type of code. Another option is to copy and paste the symbol that you want to use.
[Edit]Using Copy and Paste from the Web - Highlight a symbol in the introduction to this article. If you're using a computer, use the mouse to highlight the ™ or ® symbol as needed.
- This method will work on any computer, phone, or tablet as long as you paste the copied symbol into an app that supports special characters.
- Copy it to your clipboard. On a computer, press Ctrl + C (PC) or Command + C (Mac). On a phone or tablet, tap Copy above the highlighted symbol.
- Click or tap the place you want to insert the symbol. This places the cursor where you'll be pasting the symbol.
- Paste the symbol into your document. On a computer, press Ctrl + V (PC) or Command + V (Mac). On a phone or tablet, tap and hold the cursor until the menu expands, then tap Paste on the menu.
[Edit]Using iPhone or iPad Emoji - Tap the location where you want to insert the trademark or registered trademark symbol. Your iPhone has emoji characters for both the trademark symbol and the registered trademark symbol. This will work in any app that accepts emojis, including Messages, Mail, and social media apps.
- Tap the location where you want to insert the emoji. This opens the keyboard.
- Type (for the TM symbol) or (for the R in a circle). Your iPhone's text prediction feature will suggest the emoji right above the keyboard.
- Tap the emoji to insert it. This places the emoji at the desired location.
[Edit]Using Android Symbols - Tap the location where you want to insert the symbol. If you're using Gboard or most other Android keyboards, you'll find the trademark ™ and registered trademark ® symbols in the symbol keyboard.
- Tap . This is the key at the bottom-left that brings up the numeric keypad.
- Tap the symbol key "= \ <." It's to the left of the spacebar, above ABC or the key for your language.[4]
- Tap ™️ for the trademark symbol. This inserts the trademark symbol.
- If this doesn't work, you can also use the ™ emoji in the emoji keyboard. Just tap ABC or your language key (whichever you see in the bottom-left), then tap the smiley face to open the emoji keyboard. Tap the symbol tab at the top of the emoji keyboard (it has four symbols, including a music note and percent), and scroll through until you see the symbol you want.[5] Tap it to insert it.
- If your emoji keyboard has a search bar, you can type or to look for it.
- Tap ®️ for the registered trademark symbol. It's in the bottom row of symbols. Now you'll see the registered trademark symbol where you placed your cursor.
- You can also type symbols on Windows using the On-Screen Keyboard. Click the Start button, navigate to the On-Screen Keyboard, Leave Num Lock on. Triple click the Alt button on the On-Screen Keyboard. Type the 4-digit code in the Numpad. Press the Alt key one more time. The symbol will appear.
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| How to Prevent Silverfish Posted: 02 Oct 2021 09:00 AM PDT Silverfish might not be particularly dangerous to people, but they sure are creepy-looking. That's a good enough reason to want them gone, but they can also trigger allergies and cause damage to things like books, photographs, and clothing. Luckily, you can usually keep them out by making a few tweaks to your environment! [Edit]Repel silverfish with Japanese cedar oil. - It's been proven that this oil will repel and even kill silverfish.[1] While there's no standardized method for applying the oil, some people have had success diluting of the oil in of water.[2] Pour this into a spray bottle, then spritz areas where silverfish might be likely to congregate, like along the walls in a damp basement or the baseboards near your bookshelves.
- You can also buy commercial silverfish repellants made with Japanese cedar oil.
[Edit]Vacuum your floors and furniture frequently. - This will remove any particles that could be silverfish food. Silverfish can feed on crumbs, dust, and even dead insects around your home—yuck! Luckily, it's easy to keep these out of your environment with regular vacuuming.[3]
- As a bonus, if there are any silverfish running around, you'll probably suck them in the vacuum, too.[4]
[Edit]Get rid of any old boxes, newspapers, or magazines. - Paper products provide both food and shelter for silverfish. It's easy to forget about that stack of boxes you meant to put out for recycling or those magazines you never got around to reading. However, silverfish love to eat paper, especially if it's been treated with glue or it has a glossy surface.[5] If there's anything like that around your home, it's best to toss it out if you want to discourage silverfish.[6]
- Similarly, purge your wardrobe regularly so you don't have clothes piled up in bins or bags—silverfish will feed on certain types of fabrics.
[Edit]Store paper or fabric items in sealed containers. - Air-tight plastic bins will keep the silverfish out. If silverfish get into your home, they might start nibbling on any books, magazines, photographs, or even clothes that you have lying around. To help prevent that, place these items in containers with tight-fitting lids.[7]
- Sort through these containers periodically to make sure there aren't any silverfish hiding in them.
[Edit]Seal up your food in airtight containers, as well. - Be especially sure to keep your dry goods sealed tightly. Silverfish are just one of the insects that could be attracted to your food, so this is a good practice no matter what. In particular, silverfish like dry food that's rich in carbs, like pasta, flour, and cereals.[8]
- Be sure to seal up your pet food and treats, too!
[Edit]Run an air conditioner or fan to lower the humidity. - Silverfish thrive in areas with 75-95% humidity.[9] One of the simplest ways to make your house less comfortable for them is to just keep the air moving with an AC or fan. This is especially helpful in areas that tend to be damp, like your basement or bathroom, or in places where you store books or other items silverfish like to eat.[10]
- If your bathroom doesn't have a vent fan, consider having one installed—it can make a big difference in the humidity.
[Edit]Use a dehumidifier in damp rooms. - A dehumidifier pulls moisture out of the air. If there's a spot in your home that just always seems damp, like your bathroom, utility room, or basement, it's pretty likely to attract silverfish. By drying out the area with a dehumidifier, you might discourage insects like silverfish, as well as problems like mold and mildew.[11]
- A dehumidifier can also be helpful in closed spaces, like closets or storage rooms, where silverfish may be more likely to stay hidden for a while.[12]
[Edit]Fix any plumbing leaks. - Leaks create moisture, which will attract silverfish. If you notice a leaky pipe or a dripping faucet, repair it right away. It's probably easier than you think to do it yourself, but you can always call a plumber if you need to.[13]
- If you ignore leaky plumbing, the added moisture in and around your home could create the perfect habitat for silverfish.
- If your water meter is running even when you're not using any water, you probably have a leak somewhere.[14]
[Edit]Clear out your gutters and downspouts regularly. - Leaves, dirt, and other debris can build up in your gutters over time. When that happens, rain can collect inside of them, and it could start to seep into your home. That's going to create a whole lot of problems in the long run—and silverfish will probably be one of them.[15]
- Clean your gutters at least twice a year—or more, if you have a lot of trees that hang over your roof.[16]
[Edit]Seal your home tightly. - Silverfish can flatten out their bodies, so they're able to fit in the tiniest spaces. Walk around the outside of your home with a caulk gun and seal up any gaps or cracks that you see. That way, they won't be able to get into your home in the first place.[17]
- A fresh coat of paint can help seal out silverfish, as well.
- Seal up the interior walls, as well. Especially check for spots like seams in the wall or gaps around your baseboards, door trim, or windows.[18]
- Use expanding foam to seal holes around pipes.[19]
[Edit]Deep-clean your home once or twice a year. - Going through everything can help you spot hiding places for silverfish. During this time, sort through your closets, cabinets, drawers, bookshelves, and storage containers. Toss out any clutter and move things around a little—if there are any silverfish hiding in the areas, they'll likely be flushed out, and you can either smash the bugs or spray them with an insecticide to kill them.[20]
- Since silverfish live in dark, cluttered areas, simply shuffling your items around every so often may help prevent an infestation.
- Be sure to clean everything thoroughly—you may be removing tiny silverfish eggs without even realizing it.
[Edit]Dust dry areas with diatomaceous earth to get rid of the bugs. - Diatomaceous earth (DE) kills silverfish by drying them out. Sprinkle a little into your wall voids or use a duster to apply it along your baseboards. The insects don't have to eat it for it to work—just walk through it—so it's a great barrier against silverfish.[21]
- The easiest way to apply DE is to pour it into a bellows duster. Just squeeze the bulb on the duster while you point the nozzle, and the duster will apply a fine layer of dust.[22]
- This works best if you've also removed any sources of moisture that are attracting the silverfish.
- Diatomaceous earth is naturally derived and non-toxic, so it's safe to use if you have kids or pets.
[Edit]Use a water-based insecticide to kill silverfish on contact. - Spray insecticides aren't the most effective way to prevent silverfish. You're really better off making environmental changes to prevent them from getting into your home in the first place. However, a spray can be an effective way to get rid of an occasional silverfish if that's all you're dealing with. Spray it directly onto the insect or the area where it's hiding—it should kill the silverfish right away.[23]
- Be sure to carefully follow all of the label instructions, as most insecticides are toxic.
- Avoid using them around children or pets.
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