How to Stretch when Pregnant Posted: 15 Aug 2020 01:00 AM PDT Stretching is an excellent way to relieve any tension and aches that might come along while you're pregnant. As your belly gets bigger, it may be hard to do the stretches you're used to doing, but some easy modifications can allow your belly some room while you stretch out the stiffness. Some light stretching typically won't hurt your baby, but always talk to your doctor about what stretches you can and can't do before you try to do them on your own. Aim to do at least 2 different stretches for each part of your body (your upper body, back, and lower body) each day to keep you feeling strong and relaxed. [Edit]Back, Hips, and Legs - Alternate between cat and cow pose to stretch your back and torso. Start face down on your hands and knees. To do the cat pose, rotate your pelvis toward the floor and tuck your butt. Push your spine towards the ceiling and lower your chin to your chest. Hold it for 3 seconds and then push your tailbone up towards the ceiling and lift your chin. Hold it for 3 more seconds before flipping the movement back into cat pose.[1]
- Make sure your hands are below your shoulders and your knees are under your hips.
- Think of the movement like making a convex curve with your back for cat pose and making a concave valley for cow pose.
- If it hurts to let your belly hang down, try to tighten your abs to give it some support. If you can't do this or if it's still not comfortable, avoid the stretch altogether.
- Pull one knee into your chest to stretch your lower back and hips. Lie down flat, lace your fingers together around your knee, and hug it into your chest. Be gentle and pull it in only as far as it will comfortably go without putting pressure on your belly. Hold the stretch for 10-20 seconds and do this 3-4 times before switching to the other leg.[2]
- This'll keep your pelvis nice and loose, which is especially important during the last trimester.
- If lying flat on your back is uncomfortable to you, try propping up your upper back with a few pillows. If it's still uncomfortable or if you feel pressure on your spine from the baby, skip it.
- Lie down on your back to do pelvic tilts. Lie down flat on a rug or yoga mat and bend your knees so that your feet are flat on the floor. Arch your lower back until you feel it come up off of the floor. Then tilt your pelvis upward to flatten your lower back as if you're pushing it down into the mat. Do 8 to 10 full reps, rest, and then do another 1 or 2 sets to feel some lower back relief.[3]
- For a challenge, try lifting each side of your pelvis up toward your ribcage.
- If you're in your 3rd trimester, sit in a chair to do this one because lying on your back could put too much pressure on your spine and intestines. The movement is the same, you'll just be tilting your pelvis forward and back instead of up and down.
- Do sumo-squats with slight twists to loosen up your shoulders and back. Stand with your feet twice as wide as hip-width apart and squat down so your thighs are almost parallel to the ground (or as far as you can go). Place your hands on your knees with your fingers facing in and your elbows pointing out. Twist your upper body slightly (very slightly!) to the left and drop your right shoulder towards the floor. Hold the stretch for 10 seconds and twist to the other side, dropping your left shoulder down toward the ground.[4]
- Apply a little pressure on your inner thigh with your right hand as you turn to the left and vice versa.
- You should feel the stretch in your inner thighs, back, and shoulders.
- Be careful not to twist from your abdomen or twist too much. Keep the turn super slight and rotate from your hips instead of your midsection so you're not putting pressure on your belly.
- If you're in your 3rd trimester and you feel lopsided when you squat down, place a chair nearby so you can steady yourself. If it's still uncomfortable or if you don't feel stable, skip the stretch altogether.
- Extend 1 leg while you tuck in the other and reach toward your toes. Sit on the ground or a yoga mat with your legs sprawled so they make a 90-degree angle. Tuck your right foot in so the sole is resting against your left upper or mid-thigh. Lean forward over your left leg as much as you comfortably can as if you're going to touch your toes. Hold the stretch for 20 seconds and then switch to the other side.[5]
- Don't worry about whether or not you can touch your toes. Even if you can only reach your knee or shin, you're still getting a great stretch in your hamstrings and lower back.
- If your belly is extra-large, move the sole of your tucked foot closer to your knee. That way, your shin won't be putting pressure on your belly.
- Stretch your hips and lower back with a wide-legged forward bend. Sit with your legs extended and to the sides to make a "v" shape. Lean your upper body forward as much as you can until you feel a gentle stretch in your hips, inner thighs, and lower back. Hold the stretch for 20-30 seconds, rest, and do it again 1-2 more times.[6]
- If you want to do this one standing up, position your feet twice as wide as hip-width apart and lower your upper body to the floor. Place your hands on a low stool or 2 blocks so your spine is parallel to the floor and your belly won't feel squished.
- Keep your feet flexed so they're pointed toward the ceiling. That way, you'll feel the stretch in your inner thighs and groin.
- Open up your hips with a seated butterfly stretch. Sit comfortably on a mat or rug with your knees bent and the soles of your feet pressed together. Put your elbows on your knees and push down to open them up as much as they'll comfortably go. If this feels too easy or you're not feeling a stretch, lean forward or flap your knees like butterfly wings.[7]
- This stretch can help induce labor, so it's a good one if you're in your 3rd trimester and about to pop!
- Relieve any cramps in your calves with an easy step-forward lunge pose. Start by standing upright with your feet hip-width apart. Step your left foot out in front of you and place your right foot slightly behind you. Keep your toes pointed in the same direction. Slightly bend your left knee and lunge forward while straightening your right knee (but don't lock it). Hold the stretch for 20 seconds and then switch legs.[8]
- If you need a little help keeping your balance, grab onto a chair, table, or wall.
- Sit in a chair with 1 leg loosely crossed and lean forward to stretch your glutes. Sit upright in a chair and cross your left leg over your right leg so your left ankle is sitting on top of your right knee. Place your left hand on your left knee and your right hand on your left ankle and slowly lean forward. Hold the stretch for 20-30 seconds and then switch your legs to do it again.[9]
- Think about leaning forward (not down) with your chest so your back doesn't round during the stretch.
- This will stretch the outside of your legs and glutes—perfect for relieving sciatica pain!
- If your belly is too big to lean forward while you're sitting down, lie down with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor. Cross one ankle loosely over the knee of your other leg. Have your partner or a buddy grasp your knee and ankle (on your crossed leg) and push down slightly on your knee, away from your body until you feel a nice stretch.
[Edit]Shoulders, Neck, and Arms - Roll your shoulders to make forward and backward circles. Sit on the ground with upright posture and put your hands on your knees. Move your shoulders up, back, down, and around like you're drawing big circles with your shoulder blades. Go slow and spend at least 5 to 8 seconds on each circle to really feel the stretch. Do 10 circles and then switch directions so you're moving your shoulders forward first (then down, back, and around).[10]
- This move will help with any tightness or pain in your shoulders or upper back.
- Try to touch your ears to your shoulders to relieve neck pain. Sit or stand upright and lower your right ear down toward your right shoulder. Hold it for 3-4 seconds and see if you can go a little lower. If not, that's perfectly okay—just hold it and don't overstretch. After 20-30 seconds, bring your head upright and then push your left ear to your left shoulder. Do each side 2-3 times to whip a stiff neck back into shape![11]
- If you're not feeling much of a stretch, place your right hand on the side of your head near your left ear and push down to add some resistance.
- Feel free to do some neck rolls to transition from one position to the next and give your neck a more holistic stretch. Just go slow and remember to breathe!
- Apply pressure to the back of your head with your hands to ease neck pain. Interlace your fingers and place your hands on the back of your head near the base of your skull. Bring your elbows in towards each other as far as you can. Tuck your chin into your chest and apply a little pressure with your hands until you feel a nice stretch. Hold it for 20-30 seconds, rest, then do it 2 more times.[12]
- This will stretch the back of your neck and your upper trapezius muscles—it's a must if you tend to carry stress in your neck and upper back!
- To stretch the sides of your neck, slightly push your head to the side when your chin is tucked into your chest. Rotate your head a little and think about touching the right or left side of your chin to your chest.
- Hold a strap over your head to stretch your shoulders and torso. Sit on the floor with your legs crossed. Grab a strap or rolled towel so that your hands are the same width apart as your knees. Lift the strap up over your head and try to move it a little behind your head if you can. Hold it for 10 seconds and lower the strap down in front of you. Do 2 more reps so your shoulders feel nice and loose.[13]
- Push your ribcage out and upward as you're holding the strap over your head.
- For a challenge, lower the strap behind you to stretch your pecs and shoulder sockets.
- To stretch your sides, hold the strap directly over your head and lean to the right or left.
- Reach behind your back and touch or clasp your fingers together. Sit on the ground or stand upright and extend your right arm above your head so your upper arm is right next to your ear. Bend your elbow to bring your hand down as if you're patting yourself on the back. Relax your left arm at your side and then reach upward to try to touch or clasp the fingers on your right hand. Hold it for 20-30 seconds and then switch arms.[14]
- It's okay if you can't touch your fingers together—as long as you feel the stretch, you're doing great!
- As an alternative, hold a towel in the hand that's on top and grab onto it with your bottom hand behind your back.
- This move is great to loosen up your shoulders and triceps.
[Edit]Stretching Safely - Go slow and avoid bouncing motions to maintain proper form. Keep your movements slow and smooth so you're in control of the stretch. After you've set up for a stretch, ease into it so you can know your limits (i.e., when to stop and hold the pose).[15]
- Bouncing while stretching can add unnecessary pressure to your joints and ligaments, which are super sensitive right now due to the extra baby weight.
- Don't overdo it and take breaks when you need to. Plan to stretch for a maximum of 30 minutes at a time, 3 to 4 days a week. If you feel like you need to take a break for water or just to rest, do so. Now's not the time to overdo it—be gentle with yourself![16]
- If you're in the last half of your 3rd trimester, even just 15 minutes a day can be enough to loosen up your muscles.
- Don't feel pressure to stick to an exercise or stretching schedule when you're pregnant. Go by how you feel—if you're not feeling up for it some days, take it easy.
- Choose a cool, well-ventilated place to stretch so you don't overheat. While it's highly unlikely that you'll overheat from stretching, be sure to stretch in a cool, comfortable room that isn't too hot or humid. If you have air conditioning or some fans, turn those on while you stretch so you don't sweat too much. That way, you'll stay hydrated and energized.[17]
- The idea is to not raise your body temperature too much. A body temperature of over 102°F (38.9°C) for 10 minutes or more can cause dehydration and affect your baby.
- It's unlikely to overheat from stretching alone, especially since vigorous exercise only raises our body temperature by a few degrees. However, your growing baby's body temperature is a little higher, so it's best to stay as cool as possible.
- Steer clear of certain movements if you're in your 2nd or 3rd trimester. Avoid working your abdominals during your 2nd and 3rd trimester because it can affect how blood flows to your baby. You should especially avoid any twisting motions that engage your abdominals. Also, any stretch that has you lying face down on top of your belly is a no-go![18]
- Lying down flat on your back can also be uncomfortable, so skip it if you feel any intense pressure on your organs or spine.
- Working your abs while you're pregnant can also cause your abdominal muscles to separate, leaving behind a lumpy pooch and increasing the risk of lower back pain later on.
- If you're in your 3rd trimester and have trouble balancing the weight of your belly, don't do any stretches that involve bending forward because it increases the risk of falling on your belly.
- Try not to focus on being as flexible as you were before pregnancy and only stretch as far as you can go. As long as you're feeling the stretch, it's worth it!
- Consider joining a prenatal yoga class at your local gym or following videos online.
- Remember to breathe while you're stretching!
[Edit]Warnings - If you experience pain or contractions at any time while you're stretching, stop doing the stretch and try to relax.[19]
- Avoid any intense twisting motions that put excessive pressure on your abdomen, especially if you're in your 2nd or 3rd trimester.[20]
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How to Act at an Audition Posted: 14 Aug 2020 05:00 PM PDT Whether you're trying out for a TV show, a musical, or a choir, an audition is the nerve-wracking first step in getting the part that you want. Knowing how to act an audition can be tough, especially if you haven't auditioned much before. You can show off your skills and make a good impression on the casting crew by staying confident and accepting criticism gracefully. [Edit]Making a Good First Impression - Dress in comfortable clothing you can move around in. When you're at an audition, you want to be able to walk around, say your lines, and be comfortable without adjusting your clothes. Pick out some nice pants, a fitted shirt, and some boots or sneakers that you feel good in to wear for your audition. Keep the colors muted and neutral so you don't distract from your performance.[1]
- Don't wear anything that could be a costume, or it could distract from your performance.
- If you're going to a dance audition or somewhere you have to move your body more, wear comfortable workout clothes in solid colors.
- If the casting crew wants you to wear a specific outfit, the audition details will specify that.
- Pack some water and a few snacks. Auditions can take a long time, especially if you have to wait on other people. Bring a small backpack or bag with a water bottle and a few granola bars in case you get hungry. That way, you'll feel your best when it's time for your audition.[2]
- Try not to bring anything too heavy to eat, or it could make you feel tired.
- Auditioning takes time, and sometimes casting crews run behind. Take enough food and water with you to stay hydrated and full for at least a few hours.
- Bring your resume and headshots to hand out. Even if you've already submitted your resume and headshots, it's always nice to bring a few extra with you just in case. That way, if someone needs a copy of your information or you meet a new potential director, you can give them your details right away.[3]
- The casting crew may also need a physical copy from you when you come in, so it's always good to be prepared.
- Introduce yourself to other people auditioning. You may have some downtime before your own audition where you can meet other people trying out for your same part. Be kind and talk to them to show you are friendly and willing to get to know other people.[4]
- Some people may not want to talk to you due to nerves or stage fright, and that's okay.
- You don't have to talk to others if you don't want to, especially if you're trying to prepare for your own audition. Try to smile at people to let them know you're friendly, though.
- Walk in with your head held high. Your first impression is super important, and most people will judge you within the first 15 seconds they see you. Keep your head held high, walk with long strides, and be prepared to shake the director's hand when you walk in.[5]
- If you don't act confidently, the casting crew might not have faith in your acting skills.
- Keep a smile on your face to let your personality shine. People are more likely to warm up to you if you seem like a nice, friendly person. Try to smile at each member of the casting crew as you walk in to let them know you're excited to be here.[6]
- If you look sullen or like you're being forced to audition, you won't seem like a good actor to work with.
- Make eye contact with everyone in the room. Eye contact is the best way to show that you're confident and excited to be there. Keep your eyes level and try to look at everyone to connect with them as soon as you walk in.[7]
[Edit]Showing Your Skills - Introduce yourself and what you'll be performing. Your introduction is also called your "slate," and it's the first time the casting crew will hear you talk. Speak loudly and clearly as you state who you are and what you'll be performing today.[8]
- Try saying something like, "Hi everyone, I'm Violet Hansen, and I'll be reading the part of Gretel today" for an acting audition.
- You can also say, "Hi everybody, I'm Daniel Grace and I'll be dancing to the soundtrack of The Nutcracker" for a dancing audition.
- If you have any questions, you can also ask the director at this time.
- Perform your piece with confidence. Whether you're reading lines, singing a song, or dancing, you've probably practiced over and over to get ready for this moment. Remember all of the hard work that you've put into this piece and show the casting crew that you really want this part.[9]
- Try not to have any regrets after you audition. You only get one chance, so make it count!
- Keep going if you make a mistake. With the pressure of all the people in the room, it can be easy to get flustered or skip a line by accident. If you do mess up, just keep going! When you draw attention to your mistakes, it makes them seem worse than they actually are.[10]
- A mistake that seems huge to you might not even be that noticeable to the rest of the people in the room.
- Wait for instructions or feedback once you've finished. When your performance is over, the casting crew may need to talk amongst themselves before they talk to you. Try to remain confident and calm as you wait, and keep your face neutral or excited so you look eager.[11]
[Edit]Leaving the Audition - Accept direction or criticism gracefully. After you finish your audition, the casting crew may give you directions and ask you to perform once again, or they might reject you outright. Try to accept any feedback that you're given with grace, even if you disagree with it.[12]
- For example, the casting director could say, "Try reading your lines with more sadness and less anger this time."
- Or, they could say, "Your singing was great, but could you try enunciating more clearly this time?"
- Try not to ask a ton of questions. If you get some criticism or feedback that you don't understand, try not to interrogate the casting crew about it. The more you accept your feedback without comment, the easier you will seem to work with.[13]
- Thank the casting crew for their time. Once you're done with your performance, be sure to thank the casting crew for letting you audition today. This will leave a nice impression on them because it shows you think their time is valuable.[14]
- The nicer you are to the casting crew, the more likely you are to get a part.
- Wait for the casting crew to call you. Now comes the hard part: waiting. It's important to let the casting crew call you, not the other way around. If you constantly get in touch with the crew or director, you're less likely to get the part since you'll seem anxious and eager.[15]
- Casting crews are normally very busy, so they don't have time to take your call every day. When they're ready to let you know about your part, they'll get in touch with you.
- It's normal to feel nervous, especially if you haven't done a lot of auditions yet.
- Try to go into an audition without any expectations to take the pressure off yourself.
[Edit]Warnings - If you don't take criticism well, you might seem like you aren't a good actor to work with.
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How to Find Fulfilling Work Posted: 14 Aug 2020 09:00 AM PDT In today's super competitive job market, finding any kind of work can be tricky. Getting work that you truly love and find fulfilling can be even tougher. But, by exploring your passions and taking time to build your skills and credentials, you can get started on the career path that's right for you! Even if you're currently in a job that you don't love, you can still find ways to get the most out of your work while you look for something better. [Edit]Exploring Your Interests - Make a list of activities you enjoy doing to help define your interests. Before you can find a fulfilling job, you'll need to take some time to reflect and figure out what it is you're looking for. Sit down and write down all the things you like to do, no matter how ordinary or trivial they might seem. Almost any interest can be related to a career in some way![1]
- For example, if you're passionate about gardening, this might translate well into a job in horticulture, landscaping, or plant conservation.
- Examine the subjects you've enjoyed most in school, too. For instance, maybe you love biology or have a passion for history. If so, you might look for a career in one of these fields.
- Identify past projects that excited you. Think about things you've worked on at work or in school. Are there any projects that really stand out to you as being special in some way? If so, this could be a sign that you'd flourish in a career that involves similar work.[2]
- For instance, if you had a great time interviewing your classmates for a social studies project in high school, you might make a good journalist.
- Think about what aspect of the project excited you. For example, maybe you loved designing the poster for a project you did in chemistry class, even though you aren't crazy about chemistry. This could mean you have a knack for graphic design.
- Evaluate your special skills and strengths. In addition to your interests, your skills can play a big part in determining your ideal career. Tally up some of the things you're really good at, whether they're specific skills or more general strengths.[3]
- For instance, under general strengths, you might list things like being a good leader in group settings or being great at organizing your space.
- More specific skills might include things like speaking a second language or being able to use video editing software.
- Try taking a career interests test. There are a variety of assessments you can take to help you identify your special interests, strengths, and possible career paths. If you're in school, ask your guidance counselor or academic advisor if you might be able take one of these tests on campus. Otherwise, you can take some of these tests for free online.[4]
- For instance, the Holland Occupational Themes test is available for free on the web.[5] Do a search for "Holland Code test" or "RIASEC test." The test will ask you to rate how much you would enjoy doing a variety of tasks and help you identify different types of careers that match with your interests.
- Examine your values to figure out what's important to you. Discovering your core values can help you figure out what you want to get out of life and your work. Think about the things that are most meaningful to you. What kind of work could you do to support those key values in your life?
- For example, if you value helping others, a career in healthcare or education might be a good fit for you. If you're competitive or passionate about pushing your physical limits, you may do well as an athlete or fitness trainer.
- If you're not sure what your main values are, try taking a values assessment. Do a search for "life values inventory" to find one of these assessments online.[6]
- Talk to a career counselor about jobs that suit your interests. If you're in school, there may be a guidance counselor or career coach on staff who can help you narrow down possible career paths that would suit your skills, passions, and personality. If you're not in school, do a search using terms like "career counselor near me" to find a professional career counselor in your area.[7]
- Unfortunately, professional career counseling can get pricey. Many career coaches charge well over $100/hour for their services. However, you may be able to find free or affordable career counseling through a local government agency or nonprofit organization in your area.
- Look to mentors for advice and insight about your career path. If you have a teacher, friend, relative, coworker, or boss who's had a special impact on your life, they may be able to offer you some valuable advice.[8] Ask them if you can set a time to have a heart-to-heart talk about your future.
- You might say something like, "I'm looking to make a career change, and I've been thinking a lot about what I want to do from here. I'd love to start my own business, like you did. Could we grab lunch next week and talk about how you got started?"
[Edit]Developing Your Skills and Qualifications - Pursue a graduate degree if it's required for the jobs you're interested in. Some jobs call for more advanced degrees, like a Master's, PhD, or even more specialized graduate degree. A graduate degree can also help you get higher-paying jobs in your chosen field.[9] If you're interested in getting a graduate degree, read up on the requirements for your preferred program(s) so you can start preparing in advance.
- For example, some graduate degrees in the humanities require you to pass reading exams in a second language (such as French or German). You can prepare ahead by studying these languages on your own or at the undergraduate level.
- Go for a special certification to give yourself an edge. Some jobs require professional certifications or licenses, while others may give preference to candidates with certifications even if they don't require them. Look into supplementing your degree with a certification or some continuing education classes to give your resume a boost.[10]
- For some careers, a certification program may be all you need to qualify. For instance, in the U.S., you can become a medical assistant, paralegal, or web developer with just a 6-month certification program.[11]
- Get experience with an internship if possible. Internships are designed to give you work experience when you're just starting out in a new career. If you're in school or university, talk to your guidance counselor of academic advisor about how to apply for internships. An internship will both look good on your resume and help you build practical skills that will help you in your career.[12]
- In some cases, an internship can transition into a permanent job with the same company.
- Unfortunately, many internships are unpaid, so not everyone can afford to take advantage of them. If you're a student, but internships aren't a good option for you, find out if your school or university offers a work-study program so you can get some paid job experience.[13]
- Some common types of internships include research internships (in which you do research for a company), job shadowing (where you observe professionals on the job), and paid or unpaid work internships, in which you do the kind of work typical of professionals in your field.
[Edit]Finding Good Jobs - Check job boards specific to your field to find good opportunities. If you're actively looking for work, you might find opportunities that you'd otherwise miss if you use more specialized job boards. Find out if there are websites specific to your field where you can check for job postings.[14]
- For example, if you're interested in being a web developer, you can find specialized job listings on websites like Stack Overflow Jobs, Dice, or GitHub.
- You can also find career-specific listings through professional association websites, like the American Medical Writers Association or the American Alliance of Museums. In some cases, you may need a membership to access job postings.
- Participate in career fairs to find opportunities and make connections. You might not walk away from a career fair with a new job, but it's a good way to meet people and find out about work opportunities in your area.[15] Search for "career fairs near me" to find out about upcoming events and learn how to attend them.
- Colleges and universities sometimes host career fairs and expos for students and recent graduates. You might also be able to find large-scale job fairs in your area that are open to the general public.
- Ask people in your network for recommendations. One of the best ways to find job opportunities is through people in your professional network. Ask around among people you know to find out if anyone is hiring. They might also be willing to be a professional reference or put in a good word for you![16]
- Coworkers, bosses, teachers, and friends who work in fields you're interested in are all good potential references.
- Take advantage of professional networking sites like LinkedIn. LinkedIn is a great resource for connecting with other professionals in your chosen field. You can also find job postings, educational articles, and a variety of other resources to help you get ahead in your career. Sign up for an account and use it to keep in touch with your colleagues, trade endorsements, or advertise your skills to recruiters. Make sure to keep your profile up-to-date so that it reflects your current skills and interests.[17]
- While LinkedIn is the best-known professional networking platform, it's not the only one out there. Sign up for similar sites like Xing, Opportunity, or Shapr to increase your scope and explore as many opportunities as possible.
- Volunteer with organizations in your field to get your foot in the door. If you have the time and energy, volunteering can be a great way to build skills and connections that might lead to work opportunities. If there's a company or other organization in your area that does work related to your chosen field, visit their website or call them to find out if they have volunteer opportunities available.[18]
- For example, if you're interested in breaking into the public health industry, you might volunteer at your local hospital or sign up with an organization like SOPHE (the Society for Public Health Education).
- Even if you only end up volunteering for 2-3 hours on the weekends, you can still grow your network and add the experience to your resume!
- Check out websites like NationalService.gov or VolunteerMatch.org to find volunteer opportunities in your community.
- Get professional help with your resume or applications if you're not getting work. Many job markets can be incredibly competitive, so half the battle is just getting someone to look at your application. If you've sent in tons of applications and aren't getting any responses, ask a mentor or a professional career counselor for advice. They might be able to give you tips on how to make yourself stand out. You could even hire a professional resume writer.[19]
- For example, just reformatting your resume to make it look less cluttered or adding some skills you hadn't thought of could make a difference.
[Edit]Finding Value in Your Current Work - Look at your current job as an opportunity for learning and growth. Most people don't end up in their dream job right away. For many, finding a fulfilling job can be a lifelong journey. If you have a job currently and you aren't happy with it, look for ways to make the most of it. For example, you might:[20]
- Think about skills you've learned from your current job that you can apply to your future work.
- Make a list of people at your job who could serve as references for future job opportunities.
- Look for learning opportunities in the negative aspects of your job. For instance, what are some red flags you'll know to look out for next time you interview for a position? Have you learned anything about how to deal with difficult coworkers?
- Focus on the aspects of your job that you enjoy. Make a list of things about your job that you like, whether it's spending time with your coworkers or getting into a relaxing flow while you do the filing. You might also look for ways that your work has made a positive impact on individuals or your entire community.[21]
- For example, maybe you find the details of your work boring, but you get a sense of satisfaction from knowing that you're helping people.
- You can also look at ways that your job is helping you meet personal goals, like saving up enough money to buy something you want or help support your family.
- Set work-related goals to make your work more meaningful. Setting goals can give you focus and help you feel more challenged and fulfilled. Think about what you want to get out of your work, whether it's a better performance review or experience that you can bring into another job. As you work towards your goals, make sure to celebrate and acknowledge your progress.[22]
- Goals that are too big and vague can set you up for frustration. Set goals that are SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound). For instance, instead of saying, "I'm going to get a better job soon," you might set a goal like sending out a certain number of applications by the end of the month.
- Not all your goals have to be big or long-term. You can also set small, short-term goals for yourself, like reorganizing your files or completing a certain number of tasks for the day. Even meeting a small goal can give you a sense of satisfaction!
- Find fulfilling things to do outside of work to create balance. Even if you do manage to score your dream job, you'll likely need to balance your work with other aspects of your life in order to feel truly fulfilled. Whenever you can, set aside time for other things that you find meaningful, such as:[23]
- Working on hobbies
- Relaxing with friend and family
- Volunteering for causes you care about
- Taking care of yourself physically (e.g., getting exercise, eating well, and getting plenty of sleep)
- Working on chores and other obligations in your life
- Try to build meaningful relationships with your coworkers. Whatever kind of work you do, having good relationships with your other team members can make a huge difference in how fulfilling you find the work. Take time to get to know your colleagues, supervisors, or the people who work under you.[24]
- This might mean hanging out outside of work or just taking time to converse while you're on the job.
- Building strong professional relationships is also a great way to grow your network. One of your work buddies might help you get a better job down the line!
- It can take a lot of time, effort, and self-exploration to find the kind of work that's right for you. Don't get too discouraged if it takes a long time for you to find work you really love—everyone's journey is different!
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