| How to Throw a Going Away Party Posted: 21 Jul 2021 01:00 AM PDT Goodbyes are never easy, but they don't have to be sad, either. While you're sure to miss your friend, relative, or colleague, sending them off with a fun party will help them remember you fondly. Don't worry. We've answered all your burning questions, so you can spend more time celebrating and less time sweating the small details. [Edit]Can you throw yourself a going away party? - Yes, you absolutely can. A going away party is a great way to see all your friends, co-workers, and acquaintances before heading off on your next adventure. During the festivities, you'll have a chance to reconnect and thank all of the people in your life before you settle in a brand new place.[1]
- At the party, you might also give your new address or other contact info to your family, friends, co-workers, and acquaintances, so you can keep in touch.
[Edit]What's the first thing you need to do? - Pick a date and time for the party first. Think about the majority of your party guests and what their availability will look like. A weekday party won't offer as much flexibility, and you'll need to factor in people's work schedules and commute times. A weekend party will give you a little more wiggle room, but you'll want to set the date and time as soon as possible so your guests don't make any previous commitments.[2]
[Edit]Does the party have to have a theme? - Not necessarily, but it can be a nice touch. Pick a theme that fits with the "going away" aspect of the party—you might host a destination-style party, or opt for a classic bon voyage theme. Above all, pick something that the guest of honor will really enjoy.[3]
- For a bon voyage party, you might put map-style tablecloths over the table, or set up candles in map-themed candleholders.
[Edit]What else do you need for a successful party? - Choose a location for the big event. Unfortunately, retirements, moves, and other big changes can happen pretty suddenly and don't leave you with a lot of party planning time. See if you can find a venue that matches your theme, or at least fits the vibe of your party.[4] If you're short on time, ask a friend or relative if you can host the party at their home instead!
- For example, if the guest of honor is moving somewhere coastal, you might host the party at a tropical restaurant or tiki bar.[5]
- Even if the party is last-minute, you still might be able to reserve a spot at a local restaurant or venue. Give them a call and see what your options are!
[Edit]Who do you invite to a going away party? - Invite a wide variety of people. Going away parties are a great chance to reconnect, reminisce, and celebrate with lots of different people. If you're hosting your own party, invite your relatives and friends, along with any neighbors, co-workers, and other acquaintances you've met over the years. If you're hosting the party for someone else, invite their friends, co-workers, and other people they might like reconnecting with.[6]
- If you're hosting a going away party for a co-worker, you might invite some of your other co-workers, along with your boss or manager.
- If you're throwing a party for a neighbor, you could invite everyone on the street and make it a neighborhood affair.
[Edit]How far in advance should I plan a going away party? - Mail your invitations at least 2 weeks before the party. List all the essential information, like the date, time, venue, and when they should RSVP by. This way, you can create a rough headcount and estimate how much food, beverages, and other supplies you'll need.[7]
- Apps like Paperless Post, Red Stamp, Evite, and YappBox are easy, digital alternatives to traditional invitations.[8]
[Edit]What supplies do you bring to a going away party? - Stock up on party decor and silverware. If you're hosting the party at someone's home, decorations will really help jazz the place up.[9] Swing by your local party supply store and pick up some inexpensive decorations for the occasion. While you're at it, pick up some plastic silverware, paper napkins, and paper plates for easy set-up and clean-up.
- You might hang up a "Bon Voyage" banner, or pick up a special "Bon Voyage" cake topper.[10]
- Pick up plenty of food and beverages. Reference your RSVP count to see how many people are stopping by the party. Simple party foods like sandwiches, tacos, deviled eggs, and make-your-own-pizzas are great options for the big event.[11]
- You could serve some fun party drinks, like mojito pitchers, frozen margaritas, blue lagoons, and simple sangrias.[12] If you'd rather keep the party dry, serve drinks like strawberry lemonade, Thai iced tea, glow water, eggnog, or frozen hot chocolate instead.[13]
[Edit]What activities can you do at a going away party? - Set up some fun games. You might set up a "quiz," where people answer fun trivia questions about the guest of honor.[14] You could also plan a "spotlight segment," where you "replay" the guest of honor's life with scrapbooks, trophies, and other mementos.[15]
- You could always play simple party games, like Two Truths and a Lie, or host a ping-pong tournament.[16]
- Give a speech. If you're throwing a party for someone else, you could invite people to give a short send-off speech for the guest of honor.[17] If you're the guest of honor, you might make a speech thanking everyone for coming, and reminisce on your past memories.
[Edit]How do you throw a virtual going away party? - Host it on a video chatting platform like Zoom. Send an invite link to everyone on your guest list, along with detailed instructions on how to join. Plan for the party to be about an hour long, but give guests time to join early or stay later, if they'd like.[18]
- A virtual party can still be really festive! Dress up in your favorite party clothes, and hang up party decorations in the background.[19] You can even set up a fun virtual background, if you'd like.[20]
- To add to the party atmosphere, invite everyone to bring their own food and drinks to the call.[21]
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| How to Improve Your Ability to Learn Quickly Posted: 20 Jul 2021 05:00 PM PDT If you've got a lot of information coming at you fast, or you need to pick up a new skill in a short amount of time, no worries. The good news is there are definitely some concrete strategies and tools you can use to boost your learning ability. To help you do it, we've put together a handy list of things you do to improve your ability to learn quickly and effectively. [Edit]Take notes by hand. - Research shows it can help you learn more effectively. Make sure you bring a pen (or pencil) and plenty of paper whenever you're heading to class or studying. Jot down important information and try reframing the information in your own words, which can help improve your recall. Write in phrases instead of complete sentences so you can still pay attention and won't waste time on every little word.[1]
- Sure, you can probably type faster than you can write, but taking the time to write out everything by hand can actually retain the information more effectively.
[Edit]Create a learning schedule you can stick to. - Stick to a stable routine to help your mind retain more information. Make a rigorous study or practice schedule instead of trying to learn something in your spare time. Follow the schedule you make and focus only on studying or learning during that time period.[2]
- A consistent study routine can help you learn more quickly and effectively.
[Edit]Learn in short chunks of time. - You'll retain more information if you study in 30-60 minutes sessions. Distributed practice, also known as "time-chunking" or simply "chunking," essentially just means you spread out your practice or study sessions over multiple, short periods of time. Stick to shorter sessions focused on specific material.[3]
- Cramming or super long study sessions (something like 2-4 hours) may help you remember information in the short-term, but you won't actually retain as much of it.
- One way to use distributed practice is to review your notes immediately after a class while it's still fresh in your mind. You can then study for 30 minutes to an hour each day after to improve your recall.
[Edit]Keep a positive attitude when you're learning. - The right mindset can help you learn more effectively. Try to remind yourself that you're learning something to improve your knowledge and skills. Think about all of the benefits that come with it, whether they're professional, financial, or creative. Avoid worst-case-scenario thinking and focus on the potential positive outcomes. It can make a huge difference.[4]
- For instance, instead of thinking about all of the things you're missing out on while you study, try thinking about all of the things learning a new skill or getting a good grade in a class can allow you to do.
[Edit]Repeat what you want to remember out loud. - It can help information stick in your mind. As you review or study information, use your own speech to add an active element to a word or phrase. Say something you really want to remember out loud. It can help it become more distinct in your long-term memory.[5]
- For instance, if you're studying the rules of grammar and you want to remember what a gerund is, you can say something like, "Gerund. Gerund. Ends in 'I-N-G.'"
- Try repeating the word or phrase multiple times to really drive it home.
[Edit]Use mental images to help remember things. - Make visual associations with information you're studying. Try thinking of words, phrases, and information that you're learning as specific images in your mind. Turn large amounts of data into charts and graphs you can use to study. There are a ton of different ways you can visualize information, so try coming up with your own, too![6]
- For instance, if you're learning about the different parts of a cell, you could picture the nucleus as an office. The membrane could be like a castle wall and the mitochondria could be little factories in your mind. Find creative ways to help the information stick!
- Graphs and pie charts can be a super effective way to study large amounts of data.
[Edit]Try using mnemonic devices. - They can help you memorize a large amount of information. A mnemonic device uses a pattern of letters, sounds, or some other association to help you remember something, and if you know the "ABCs" song, then you know exactly how effective they can be! Create mnemonic devices with the information you're trying to learn and it can help improve your recall.[7]
- Mnemonics help you simply and summarize things, so it's really useful for a large amount of information.
- For instance, if you're trying to remember the first 5 US presidents, you could come up with a mnemonic like "White Apples Just Mean Mice" or something like that to represent the first letters of Washington, Adams, Jefferson, Madison, and Monroe.
[Edit]Test yourself as often as you can. - It's a great way to figure out what you need to learn. Go through the information you're trying to learn and ask yourself questions about the material. If you answer correctly, great! If not, find the right answer and try to remember it. If you have access to practice tests or quizzes, use them to challenge your recall. If you're giving a talk or presentation, rehearse it and test yourself by listing all of the information you'll cover as well as any stats or data you'll use in it.[8]
- The more you test yourself, the more confident you'll be that you know the information.
[Edit]Practice a task in different ways to learn more quickly. - Changing up the way you practice can help you improve. If you're trying to learn a task or skill, practice is super important and one of the most effective ways to get better. But don't just practice the same way over and over. Instead, try mixing it up and practicing a different way each time, which can help your mind consolidate your memories and recall, making you learn more quickly.[9]
- For instance, if you're giving a presentation on a specific topic, try rehearsing it normally, then try rehearsing it faster than you normally would. After that, you could try rehearsing it more slowly than usual. You can also try breaking it up into smaller chunks and going through each bit multiple times. Find different ways you can practice!
[Edit]Reflect on what you know to identify gaps in your knowledge. - It can help you figure out what you need to focus on learning. Metacognition is basically thinking about thinking and it can be a really useful learning tool. As you're studying or testing yourself, ask yourself questions about how well you know something.[10]
- For instance, if you're learning about the geography of Africa, you could ask yourself questions like, "Do I know where Libya is?" or "Could I show someone where Ethiopia is on the map?"
- Metacognition can also help you avoid wasting time on things you already know.
[Edit]Calm your mind with meditation. - It can help you stay focused and relaxed. Studying for a test, presentation, or anything else can be really stressful and it's easy for your mind to feel overwhelmed. Cultivate a calm and relaxed mind by practicing meditation or other techniques such as deep breathing exercises.[11]
- The calmer your mind, the more you can focus and the better you'll be able to retain information.
[Edit]Exercise regularly. - It'll improve both your health and your memory. Studies indicate that regular periods of high-insity exercise can significantly improve your memory. Try to get at least 30 minutes each day. Use exercise as a healthy way to take a break from your studies that will also actually help with your recall.[12]
- Try out a group fitness class, go for a run or bike ride, or lift some weights. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing—just get active!
- Fun fact: exercise actually increases a chemical called brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which helps improve the health of your brain cells. Neat!
[Edit]Follow a healthy diet. - Give your body and mind the fuel it needs to succeed. The age old saying that "you are what you eat" may actually have a ring of truth to it. Research shows that eating brain-healthy foods like leafy vegetables, fatty fish, berries, and nuts can boost your brainpower, which may help improve your ability to learn new things. Focus on eating a well-balanced diet that includes lean protein ant lots of fresh fruits and veggies and your body and mind will thank you for it.[13]
- Take care of your body and it'll take care of your mind.
[Edit]Get at least 8 hours of sleep each night. - A well-rested mind can learn more effectively. Sleep isn't a luxury if you're focused on learning something—it's an absolute necessity. Your brain consolidates the information you learn while you sleep, and studies indicate that people who get a full night's sleep have better long-term retention of information.[14]
- Take breaks whenever you need them, too! If you're trying hard to study or learn something, your brain may need a 5-10 minute rest every now and then.
- It can also be helpful to find a comfortable, quiet place to study free from distractions so you can stay focused.
[Edit]Warnings - Avoid taking drugs or stimulants to help yourself stay up studying. You could get addicted to them and they may cause other health problems.[15]
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| How to Ask Someone to Hold Your Hand Posted: 20 Jul 2021 09:00 AM PDT Whether you're out on a date or just hanging with a cool friend, the thought of holding hands might be enough to get butterflies going in your stomach. Actually asking someone to hold hands can be nerve-wracking, especially if you haven't done it before. Thankfully, there are a few ways you can ask directly or subtly to start holding hands with the person that you like. [Edit]Wait until you're in a private place. - Some people aren't comfortable holding hands until they're alone. If you've never held hands with this person before, don't try it in a public place. Instead, wait until you're by yourselves or in a more secluded area.[1]
- For instance, if you were in a coffee shop, wait until you're taking a stroll through the park to make the hand-holding move.
[Edit]Test the waters with a high-five. - Let them know that you're okay having your hand touched. If the person you're with celebrates an accomplishment or says something cool, offer them a high-five. Afterwards, let your hand linger for just a few seconds to give them a subtle message.[2]
- This is a good way to test the waters and get a read on their body language. If they also let their hand linger and didn't pull away immediately, it's a good sign!
[Edit]Place your hand next to theirs. - It might encourage them to reach out and grab your hand. Get your hand as close to theirs as you can without actually touching. If you're sitting at a table, place your hand on top of the table next to theirs. If you're sitting side by side, place your hand down by your lap so it almost touches theirs. If they're feeling bold, they might even reach out and grab your hand first.[3]
- This is a super subtle way to ask someone to hold hands. If your date isn't picking up on it, don't worry! They probably just missed your clue.
- If you're worried about having sweaty palms, just wipe your hand on your pants before you put your hand near theirs.[4]
[Edit]Bump your hand against theirs. - You can do this while you walk and talk. Swing your arms back and forth and "accidentally" brush your hand against theirs. Or, if you're sitting down, place your hand on the table but brush your hand against theirs first.[5]
- If they "accidentally" brush your hand with theirs, try not to flinch! They might be trying to send a signal right back at you.
[Edit]Ask them to hold hands if you want to be direct. - It's the best way to make sure your date wants to hold hands. If you can't quite read their body language or you're worried that you're overstepping your boundaries, just ask! If they say yes, you can confidently take their hand and hold it for as long as you'd like.[6]
- You might say, "Is it okay if I hold your hand?"
- Or, "Will you hold my hand?"
- Or, "Would you like to hold hands?"
- If they say no, that's fine, too. They might not be comfortable with physical touch, or they might want to get to know you a little more before holding hands.
[Edit]Tell them your hand feels cold. - Then, ask them to feel it for you. This is a cute and flirty way to get someone to hold your hand. If they feel your hand and say that it does feel cold, ask them to warm it up for you by hanging onto it.[7]
- This is a great hack to use during the chilly winter months.
- You could say something like, "Brr, my hands are super cold! Here, feel."
- Or, "My hands are super chilly. Could you warm them up for me?"
[Edit]Challenge them to a thumb wrestling match. - Get up close and personal with their hand as you wrestle. A thumb wrestling match is another great way to break the touch-barrier—plus, adding a little competition into your time together can enhance the flirty fun you're having.[8]
- After you're done thumb wrestling, just keep your hand nestled in theirs. If they don't pull away, you can keep holding hands.
[Edit]Ask if you can read their palm. - Palm reading is a flirty and fun way to touch hands. Grab their hand and check out the lines in their palm. If you know how to read palms, tell them what's going to happen in their future! If you don't know how to read palms, you can just make something up.[9]
- You could even turn this into an opportunity to ask about holding hands. As you trace a line down their palm, say something like, "In your future, I see you holding hands with your cute date."
[Edit]Compare the size of your hands. - Get your date to hold their hands against yours. Depending on the size difference, you could say "Wow, my hands are so much smaller/bigger than yours! Let me see." Then, grab their hand and put it over your own.[10]
- You can smoothly turn this into hand holding by saying something like, "They still fit together pretty good, though" as you slide your fingers into theirs.
[Edit]Pull them somewhere by their hand. - Tell them you've got to show them something right now! If they're hesitant or a little slow, grab their hand and lead them along behind you. When you get to your destination (a cool plant, a fun store window, a cute dog), just keep your hands together.[11]
- You could make a joke out of it by saying, "Well, I guess we have to keep holding hands now."
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