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How to Avoid Miscommunication in Emails

Posted: 25 Aug 2021 01:00 AM PDT

If you've been in the workforce for a while, you probably know just how important emails are. Since there's no way to convey tone or body language over the internet, it's easy to misinterpret someone's message when you see it on a screen. Keep reading to learn how you can write emails that are clear, concise, and effective in a professional setting.

[Edit]Steps

[Edit]Write emails when you can focus.

  1. If you're distracted, your email might not be as well put-together. When you have an email to write, try to sit down uninterrupted when you aren't thinking about a million other things. Your writing will be clearer and you'll be able to focus on your grammar, tone, and overall message.[1]
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    • This is especially important if your email is going out to multiple people.

[Edit]Set the tone with your first few words.

  1. Your opening phrase can have a big impact. If you'd like your tone to be light and casual, open up with something like, "Hi Jessica! Hope you had a good weekend." If you want to keep it a little more professional, just say something like, "Hi David."[2]
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    • Try to avoid anything too stuffy, like "Dear Robert." It seems a little impersonal.

[Edit]Keep your emails short.

  1. Long-winded messages tend to confuse your recipient. Try to be brief and concise, if possible. Keep your sentences short, and don't add too much detail—if you find yourself writing more than 1 or 2 paragraphs, you should probably give people the information over video chat or in person.[3]
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    • Try to get to the point quickly, and avoid writing a ton of pleasantries.
    • People tend to read emails in short bursts. If you add too much information, chances are, some of it will get lost.
    • Keep your emails brief, but try to avoid blunt sentences or one-word answers. Those can seem a little rude, especially over a computer screen.

[Edit]State what you need clearly.

  1. If you are requesting something, make sure it's understandable. Don't beat around the bush—state what you need clearly and directly so there's no misunderstanding. If there's a timeline, be sure to include that as well. Be sure to keep your tone light, though. For instance:[4]
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    • "I need that monthly progress report in my inbox by Monday evening."
    • "If you could get that team feedback form to me by the end of the week, that would be great."

[Edit]Organize your thoughts with paragraphs.

  1. It will help people read the information easily. When you move onto a new subject, separate it with a new paragraph so your email is skimmable. It will help your reader scan the message quickly to find the parts that are most relevant to them.[5]
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    • Use words like "also," "next," and "lastly" to start off your paragraphs.

[Edit]Add a specific subject line.

  1. Let people know what exactly the email is about. Make sure your subject is specific; for instance, instead of writing "Report," try something like, "Monthly planning report: June 2021." Your colleagues will be more likely to open it up and read it if they know it's important and relevant to them.[6]
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    • This also helps keep your emails out of the spam folder.

[Edit]Proofread for typos.

  1. Mistakes can really throw off your message. While most spell-checkers will catch misspelled words, they won't be able to catch the wrong word choice or someone's misspelled name. You should also read through for missing punctuation or grammatical errors, since those can make the reader think you don't care. Spend 2 to 3 minutes reading your email before you send it to make sure there aren't any glaringly obvious errors.[7]
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    • In a professional setting, it's very important to spell someone's name correctly. Take a minute to double check that you have it right before you send it off to avoid any awkwardness in the future.

[Edit]Re-read your emails for tone.

  1. Think about how your recipients will read your message. Something like, "Let's talk later," might seem innocent to you, but your colleague reading it might think they're in trouble or that you're angry. Change it to something like, "Do you have time to chat later about the upcoming changes in the report?" to be a little clearer.[8]
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    • Never use all caps in your emails! Writing a sentence in caps lock is usually seen as yelling at someone through a computer screen.
    • Instead of something like, "Submit your changes by tomorrow morning." try something like, "Since the deadline is tomorrow afternoon, I'll need your changes by tomorrow morning. Let me know if that timeline works for you."

[Edit]Pause before replying to an inflammatory email.

  1. If you get an email that makes you feel angry, take a second to breathe. Instead of crafting a cutting reply, count to 10 (or 1,000) until you feel calm. Then, re-read the email to see if it's actually insulting or not. Chances are, you may have misconstrued the message a bit, and it's not actually that bad.[9]
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    • If you still feel the need to craft an angry reply, wait for 24 hours before sending it. Then, revisit your reply after a day to see if you still want to send it or not.

[Edit]Give people the benefit of the doubt.

  1. It's hard to convey a positive tone in an email. If you read something a colleague sent you and you're immediately offended, take a step back and re-read what they wrote. Try to ask yourself if there's any other way the tone can be interpreted—is this email actually rude, or are they just being blunt?[10]
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    • For instance, someone might write, "I need that report by tonight." At first glance, this seems a little cold and unemotional. However, it's not necessarily rude, it's just factual and brief.

[Edit]Tips

  • Emails are often seen as non-urgent. If you need an answer right away, try to talk to your colleague in-person or via video chat instead.[11]

[Edit]References

How to Compliment a Guy on His Personality

Posted: 24 Aug 2021 05:00 PM PDT

Doesn't it feel good to have someone tell you that you're funny, sweet, charming, or kind? The truth is, everyone loves getting complimented on their personality! It makes people feel good and validated, and it doesn't take much effort. To make it even simpler for you, we've put together a list of compliments for a variety of situations so you can compliment almost any guy on his personality.

[Edit]Steps

[Edit]"You're so thoughtful."

  1. Give him credit for the sweet and helpful things he does. Pay attention to when he's being especially considerate and let him know that you notice it. Tell him how sweet and thoughtful something that he did for you (or someone else) was and he'll really appreciate it.[1]
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    • If you're in a relationship with a guy, praising him when he's sweet may motivate him to keep doing thoughtful things. It's a win-win!
    • You could also get more specific with it. For instance, you could say something like, "That was really thoughtful of you to make me a cup of tea when I was feeling a bit under the weather."

[Edit]"You're the sweetest guy I've ever met."

  1. Let him know you think he's kind and caring. Make him feel special and praise his naturally caring nature whenever you can. Show him that you love it when he's kind and that you think it's a really positive trait of his personality.[2]
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    • You could also try something like, "That was such a sweet thing to do for that person. You're amazing" or "I love how caring you are."

[Edit]"You're such a great listener."

  1. Bring attention to his patient and understanding nature. If you ever find yourself venting or expressing your thoughts and feelings to a guy, take note of how well he listens and responds to you. Highlight how thankful you are for him taking the time to really pay attention to what's going on with you and offer feedback and support.[3]
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    • Another way to say it could be, "Thank you for listening to me when I just need to vent. You're so great at it."
    • You could also try, "I feel like I can talk to you about anything."

[Edit]"How do you always know exactly what to say?"

  1. Let him know his words are insightful and supportive. Whenever a guy in your life gives you some really helpful advice, thank them for it! Tell them that you really appreciate their support. Let them know that their insight is one of their greatest strengths. They'll love hearing it.[4]
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    • Another way to put it is something like, "You always give the best advice. Thank you so much."
    • You could even try, "You make me feel so much better every time I talk to you."

[Edit]"You're so funny!"

  1. Show him that you love his sense of humor. What guy doesn't love hearing that they're funny (maybe even when they're not)? If he cracks a joke or says something really sharp and witty, let him know if you thought it was funny. He'll love the feeling of validation.[5]
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    • If he pulls off a solid joke, you could try, "Nice. Really good. You're really funny, that was great."
    • You could also try something straightforward like, "You've got such a great sense of humor."

[Edit]"Wow, you're really cool-headed."

  1. Boost his self-esteem and compliment his character. The next time you see him handle himself well in a stressful or frustrating situation, give him some props. Let him know you noticed it and you appreciate it.[6]
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    • For instance, if there's a heated meeting at work, and he manages to stay calm and composed without losing his cool, you could say something like, "You really handled that well. Great job."
    • If he's been dealing with a lot of stress lately, give him some praise like, "You've got a lot going on, but you always manage to stay calm and I really admire that."

[Edit]"I wouldn't change a single thing about you."

  1. Praise everything about him at once. You could use this one if a guy asks you what you think about him or if you just find yourself noticing how much you appreciate who he is as a person. Compliment his entire personality and make him feel good about himself.[7]
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    • You could also try, "I'm trying to pick out a single thing that I like most about you, but really, I like everything!"
    • Another way to say it is, "Kind, patient, caring, funny, I mean, you've got it all!"

[Edit]"You're so good at getting along with people."

  1. Highlight the fact that other people love his personality too. Pay attention to how well a guy interacts with other people. Point it out whenever you notice that he's really great at talking to others and making them feel comfortable and relaxed. He'll appreciate the praise![8]
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    • It can take a lot to be good at getting along with other people. A guy may need to be funny, smart, silly, and patient all in the same conversation. Show him that you admire it.
    • You can also say something like, "Everybody loves you. It must be your amazing personality."
    • Another way to praise his ability to get along with others is to say, "You're such a social butterfly. You make friends wherever you go!"

[Edit]"I'm so thankful for everything you do for me."

  1. Acknowledge and appreciate his efforts. If a guy in your life has a naturally helpful and caring personality, let him know that you see it and that you're thankful for it. Point out specific things that he does and praise his personality in general to make him feel good about it.[9]
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    • Get specific and try something like, "I saw you filled up the car with gasoline. That's so kind. You're the best."
    • You can also try something like, "You're always there for me and I can't thank you enough."

[Edit]"You're so smart!"

  1. Tell him you like the way he thinks. Praise his intelligent and inquisitive nature. Point out how much you admire it and how cool you think it is that you have a smart guy in your life. He'll absolutely love it.[10]
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    • You can also say something like, "How do you know so much about everything? I love how curious you are."
    • You could try a playful teasing compliment like, "You're like a walking encyclopedia!"

[Edit]"You've got such a heart of gold."

  1. Show him you love and appreciate his kind nature. Some guys are naturally open and sweet, and some guys act tough on the outside but are really gentle and caring nature on the inside. Whatever the case, let him know that you cherish and admire the kindness within him. He'll feel validated that you can see it.[11]
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    • Another way to say it is, "I think it's just so great how kind and considerate of others you are."
    • If he likes to act like a tough guy, try something like, "You know I see right through you, right? You can try to hide it but I know you're a big softie."

[Edit]"You make me feel safe."

  1. Make him feel good about his protective nature. Guys are oftentimes really caring and protective about the people in their lives. Let him know that you see and appreciate it. He'll love that you notice and like it.[12]
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    • You can also try something like, "Thanks for keeping an eye out for me. I really appreciate it."
    • Another option is, "I feel like I can trust you with anything and you'll take care of me."

[Edit]Tips

  • Try to keep an eye out for specific things that highlight aspects of a guy's personality so you can compliment him. For instance, if he picks up litter he sees on the ground, you can praise his caring nature.

[Edit]References

How to Edge a Lawn with String Trimmer

Posted: 24 Aug 2021 09:00 AM PDT

String trimmers, weed wackers, weed eaters — whatever you want to call them, they're certainly useful power tools for doing different types of lawn maintenance! One handy way you can use your string trimmer in your yard is as an edger. Use a weed wacker to edge the border of your lawn wherever it meets things like garden beds, patios, pathways, and driveways. Just make sure to take the right safety precautions and use the right techniques to avoid accidents and get great results!

[Edit]Steps

[Edit]Lawn Prep

  1. Mow your lawn before you edge it. Mowing your lawn gives the grass a neat, uniform look. Then, all you have to do is clean up the edges with your string trimmer to finish up the job![1]
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    • If you don't mow your lawn right before you edge the borders, the grass along the edges can end up being shorter than the rest of the grass, so it won't look good.
  2. Trim the surface of the grass along the edges with your string trimmer. Most mowers don't trim the grass all the way up to the borders of the lawn, so you're probably going to be left with some longer grass along the edges after mowing. Start at the left side of the edge and hold your weed wacker normally. Turn it on so the string starts cutting the longer blades of grass, then slowly walk your way to the right along the whole edge until you trim all the longer grass.[2]
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    • If your mower does trim grass all the way up to the borders and it all looks uniform and neat to you, go ahead and skip this step.
    • If your string trimmer is shooting grass clippings into a garden bed or another area you don't want them, walk the opposite direction so it shoots them back into your yard.
  3. Plan the path for edging. If it's your first time edging, mark the path out along the grass with tape, a hose, or rope. If the borders of your lawn are already edged, you can just follow the existing lines and clean them up. Where the grass meets hard surfaces like sidewalks, driveways, and patios, just use the line of the concrete to guide your cutting path.[3]
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    • Generally, you want to edge your lawn where it meets garden beds and along the perimeters.
    • Check for buried hazards like wires, pipes, rocks, and glass shards along the path and remove or avoid them while you edge.

[Edit]Edging

  1. Hold the trimmer at a 90-degree angle so the string spins top to bottom. Flip your trimmer so the top guard is facing you. Lower the spinner line as needed until it just barely comes into contact with the grass and soil along the border of your lawn you want to edge. If you're edging along a hard surface, like a driveway, hold the trimmer so the line is right where the grass meets the concrete.[4]
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    • Before you start your trimmer, practice moving the head along the edge and keeping it level. This helps you get the motion down before you start actually cutting along the border of the lawn, so you get a nice even edge.
    • Wear long pants, closed-toe shoes, gloves, and safety glasses or goggles to protect yourself from flying debris and the spinning string on your trimmer.
    • Don't edge a lawn near children, pets, or bystanders. You might send debris flying their way!
  2. Work in the opposite direction from the direction the string spins in. That way, the string trimmer throws the debris away from the cut path. Most string trimmers spin clockwise, so work from left to right. However, if yours spins counterclockwise, work from right to left instead.[5]
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    • You may want to switch which side of the lawn's edge you stand on from time to time to avoid sending debris flying towards things like cars or the side of your home.
  3. Hold the trimmer steady and level as you slowly walk the edge. Turn your string trimmer on so it starts cutting along the edge of the grass and into the soil. Slowly start walking along the edge, keeping the string trimmer as level as possible to cut an even edge.[6]
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    • Tucking the motor of the trimmer under your arm can help you hold it steady.
    • Avoid swinging the string trimmer with your arms. Hold your arms still and move the trimmer along as you walk.
  4. Walk slowly and let the weight of the trimmer do most of the work. Keep your back towards the direction the trimmer is tossing the debris in. Walk forward along the planned edge while continuing to hold the trimmer steady and at an even level. If you're edging along a hard surface, it's easiest to stand on the concrete side. If you're edging along a garden bed or perimeter, it's best to stand on the grass side.[7]
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    • You can go back over areas if you make uneven cuts or want to alter the edging line slightly.
  5. Shovel up loose soil, turf, and other debris along the edges as you go. Dump it into a wheelbarrow and dispose of it properly. This lets you clearly see the edges while you work. It also reduces the amount of dirt and other debris that you can churn up and send flying while you're edging.[8]
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    • In most cases, all this debris can go in your yard waste bin. However, make sure you know your local regulations before you just dump everything in there.
  6. Blow clippings and loose dirt away from fresh edges with a leaf blower. This final step is optional, but it can really make the edges of your lawn pop. Walk a small blower along all the edges you just cut to blast away loose dirt and grass clippings.[9]
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    • This is also a great time to do some other yard maintenance, such as trimming bushes and shrubs. You'll love the polished final look!

[Edit]Warnings

  • Always wear closed-toe shoes, long pants, a long-sleeved shirt, and protective eyewear when you edge with a string trimmer.
  • Don't edge near children, pets, or bystanders.
  • Never start a gas string trimmer in a garage or another closed space. Carbon monoxide can build up to dangerous levels quickly.

[Edit]References

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